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You weird as hell fetishizing loser

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Girl you also read yaoi, you're just as guilty

Says the one with a bunch of smutty BLS in their reading lists

Then what are u doing in mangago??????

There isnt even any fetishizing in this comment?? The hell??

Then what is it? They clearly said horny and fujoshi that’s what fetishizing means

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There were a lot of comments complaining about how it was too much of a slow burner it was on the romance side. I meant I sympathise, being a fujoshi too, but encourage fellow readers to enjoy the story.

I also don't fetishise gay men; there's a big difference between BL and actual gay men, as weird as that sounds.

Since when does being horny= fetish?
watching any type of porn to jerk off is also a fetish then? The person basically said yeah they like smut and they like yaoi but it's no reason to hate on a slow burn, but you come in and jump off your conclusion cliff and call them a fetishizer. That's hella disrespectful

And also I think a fetishizer would be encouraging the comments hating on the slow burn not the opposite

Thank-you Kiki, you're very kind.

I don't mind a slow burner romance if it's supported by a fascinating story and characters. I'm enjoying the many mysteries and world-building. There's more to this than the romance. I'd read this without the budding romance. It reminds me of 'I wasn't Cinderella' which isn't BL.

Lmao you’re joking right? The whole point flew over your head. A fujoshi is a WOMAN being over obsessed with GAY material and getting off of it. This does not apply to a man jerking of to a woman or the opposite. Here I’ll give you the definition of what fetishized means it took me 5 seconds. make (something) the object of a sexual fetish or to have an excessive and irrational commitment to or obsession with (something). OP labeled themselves as a “horny fujoshi” this literally implies she is horny for BL material. I’m not trying to argue with you I’m just educating you and I hope you don’t take it the wrong way. And I also don’t saying I hated slow burn?

You saying you were a horny fujoshi which implies that you are horny for BL material. I’m pretty sure that’s what a fetish means whether it’s fantasy or in real life. If that’s not what you meant then I apologize but I’m just trying to explain from my perspective.

“Fujoshi means being obsessed” now you’re just making your own definitions weirdo

I wouldn't say I'm 'obsessed', BL is just one of my favourite genres, especially for romance. I've always taken fujoshi to mean 'female fan of BL.'

I would think every woman intentionally reading BL is getting a certain level of gratification. I read the comment sections, I know what the audience is like. I don't understand why you're shaming me specifically like a weird pervert.

Dude while I can't say every girl who calls themselves a fujojoshi is not a pervert
I can tell you most bl is written and read by women not because they're fetishists but because it's either cute or if they're straight it's twice the amount of hot dudes in comparison to straight smut
Girls who read bl mostly aren't going to watch real gay porn or ever fantasize with gay men in real life
Also it's a weird hill to die on instead of fighting stranger girls on mangago why not fight homophobes on Twitter

No I didn’t. Literally look it up online. It means rotten girl for a reason. I don’t know why you’re calling me a weirdo when I’m not the one saying weird shit like that

Okay thank you for clearing it up instead of taking it the wrong way. When you said that I thought you meant it as fetishizing the genre. A lot of people tend to deny it in order to not get hated in which I why I’ve been trying to explain my reasoning

I agree with you in the first part. But in my comment the last part I said if it’s not that i apologize and that i was explaining from my perspective. I don’t remember saying anything hateful to you or anyone. Or trying to bash you for being a weird pervert? I was just trying to educate some of the people down in the comments who were taking it the wrong way

“Dude while I can't say every girl who calls themselves a fujojoshi is not a pervert“ that is exactly why I though OP was weird when they inserted “horny”. But they cleared it up and told me it’s only a liking to that genre and I’ve apologized to them.

I’ven heard and seen strangers and friends denying they’re weird and still watch and read gay porn. No one calls themselves a fujoshi anymore unless you only read it for the smut or what I’ve seen online. But what I’m trying to say is that a lot of them tend to deny it even thought they jerk off to it. Which that is really weird imo. Anyways i didn’t try to argue if you read my comment i said i was trying to educate them on the definition of the words. I don’t remember saying anything hateful to anyone. Am I wrong for that then?

You’re literally willing to die on this hill by harassing others about a term that nobody brought up, on a comment about a slow burn. What else are you except a weirdo?

I don't watch real gay porn or fantasize about real men. I don't even 'ship' actors or real life fictional characters.

I was just trying to be jovial when I called myself a 'horny fujoshi.' This thread has gone in an unexpected direction.

I won't deny there's an element of fetishization, but the issue may be more with idealization. I can separate BL from real homosexual relationships because BL doesn't represent reality. They're gay relationships through a mostly feminine lens, so we neatly have a top and bottom as the norm, with the bottom taking the role of the female. Probably why omegaverse is so popular and many of us long to see what the couple's children would look like - even if it's not omegaverse.

This is just my perspective, of course. Anyway, I'm not offended, its been good conversation.

It was the fetishistic angle, as if I was dehumanizing. I actually get bored if there's too much smut without context. For example I'm a fan of Love Shuttle, but zone out when a chapter or plus is just smut. I like smut with meaning, otherwise I wouldn't discern between titles.

My initial comment was meant to be jovial and I didn't want my fellow readers to feel attacked for my concern that they weren't engaged with the story and only cared for the romance aspect.

Please share it to us

Please. We would appreciate it soooo much! Thanks in advance. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

Wait, there is a thai live action ? How come I didn't know about it, I need to check this ASAP !

Yep! 11 eps so far and unlike the Japanese adaption we get to see them making out. That last ep they consummate and ooooh boy was it spicy! <3

Ayoooooo please send link where I can watch it or at least the name of that one please

My replies aren't being add. You'll find a few free places in search engines.

Please pick it up ヾ(☆▽☆)

This is my only previous work to compare: https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/megumi_and_tsugumi/mdx/br_chapter-31586/pg-1/

Happy to do my best. I use a mix of apps, Google and limited knowledge. I know less about Korean, but am happy to do my darndest.

It’s super good!!!! You should totally translate if you have time :3