keep your internalized homophobia to yourself you rude bitch!!!
Even if youre in a not strings attached kind of relationship.... i think its weird to talk with your fuck-buddy about what you do with other people.
Like no offense but idgaf
seen that tiny puppy like the leader of the wolfs is so funny.
Also, i love me some revenge none of that forgiveness bs, he's trash and deserves to suffer.
Suo cant win, first it was he was too persistent and not giving Geon the space he asked for and now that he did, he's still the bad one?
Personally i hate the "take some time" trope i'd rather they break up and learn to be alone before getting back together.
It’s cause he’s the top.
"I'm the problem" No you're NOT dont be manipulated.
In this case?? Yeah, he is lmao, bro freaked out over a simple "hey, you like me right?"
He kind of is for this particular problem imagine dating someone who can’t say I love you, you just feel used
maybe because he's dating the same man who not long ago was hella homophobic to him.
Imagine dating a homophobic man who has done nothing to show he's changed besides saying sorry.
Then don’t date him, it’s that simple. If Garam, didn’t like him I trust, cause my guy got a serious backbone, that he would NEVER, go out with not tolerate the guy, but he did. If you hate someone, reject them, there’s no knife to your throat. Garam agreed to date him, and is now treating him like a dildo, good to fck but not to love. No one deserves to be treated like that, I’ll lash out too, I believe you will too. If Garam think he’s not ready to forgive jaehyuk, the solution is to talk “ I don’t wanna date you cause I still hate you” not whatever this is. And if it’s your solution, then maybe you’re part of the problem, if solving hate by hate
"Dont date him is that simple" LMAO as if Garam didnt try to stay away from him and Jaehyuk pursued him until he gave in.
The fact that you put all responsability in Garam is laughable he should reject him, he should have a backbone, he should communicate (wich he did, when he ended the relationship he was pretty clear and Jaehyuk still went after him) but all you say also applies to Jaehyuk.
If he had a backbone he should have respected Garam's decition and if he was going to chase him until he agreed he should understand it's going to take more time for Garam to process all of it, but no, he chased him until he got what he wanted and now he's playing the victim.
maybe garam just cant express his emotions that well?
i mean i know for sure that i wont be comfortable in saying i love you to my partner, id rather show my love instead
You just don’t read, I said, I trust garam to reject jaehyuk if he still hated him BECAUSE, he has the backbone to do so, he showed it to us. Jaehyuk could NEVER pressure garam in a relationship because garan would never be trapped like that. You’ve got to be seriously delusional if you think that, like do you not see the guy ? He’s no pushover. You keep saying things like we’re not reading the same story “playing the victim” because he wants his BOYFRIEND, to say I LOVE YOU TOO ?! If you hate the guy drop the story, he’s the ml so you’ll still see his face yk ?! May someone never do this to you, cause we don’t want you “playing victim” too
I’m sorry but for me he’s not showing anything either, no cuddles, kisses, gentle touch, nothing, just awkwardness like he doesn’t know want to do with him. That’s how I treat my siblings. I’m not one for ily either, it sounds weird because ik I’ll mean it with my heart and it gets too corny for me, but like you I’ll show it, will want to cuddle, to kiss, to spend time together, BE together. Garam may very well still be awkward with him due to their circumstances, this I understand. So I think they should lay their pride down and talk it out. Voice their insecurities and find what works for them
If you think so highly of Garam why you dont trust him to say I love you to Jaehyuk when he feels it's right and NOT when he's pressured to doing it. "He's no pushover" pleeeease, Garam has been Jaehyuk's toy this entire story. Garam has tried to end things with him maybe 5 times and everytime Jaehyuk push him until he gave in. Even their current relationship was just Jaehyuk not taking a no for an answer.
He is playing the victim, not once in this entire fight he acknowledges he has contributed to Garam's distrust in love by been fucking homophobic, made fun of him for been gay and tried to use him sexual orientation as a weapon! So yes! Him going "omg my bf who i was homophobic towards is not showing me all the love i think i deserve" is playing victim, even him getting mad about his ex'bf is less about been concerned for Garam's past experiences and more about his ego.
You CANNOT be this dumb. Garam rejected Jaehyuk like 5x already but Jaehyuk still won't give up. He dated him because Jaehyuk literally pursued him until he gave in.
Also, it's really not Garam fault if he can't say "I love you" easily. He was obviously scared because would not want the same mistake to repeat because the guy he used to date is str8(Garam maybe was traumatised bcs of his ex) and so is Jaehyuk. He feared that Jaehyuk would also do the SAME THING to him. That's why he couldn't bring himself to say "I love you too" to Jaehyuk.
And its so weird how some of yall under these comment section protecting Jaehyuk as if he wasn't a jerk before. I mean maybe he changed but why some of yall hating on GARAM???
I love when couples get flirty before they date. So many stories jump from missunderstanding/ think is one-sided to a couple too fast.
he has a family tho!!!!
he should ask for money to his dad and go to a hotel the fuck is this shit.