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No just damage or not as strong

thanks you, i wasnt sure.

lol IKR XD

He didn't even know that he was a father

ur a weirdo, don’t continue reading if u lack reading comprehension dumbass LMAO

Bro have some sympathy?? Weirdo

Thats a very weird take. Could he have communicated better yes but I get where he was coming from. He didnt want her to give up her life for his when theres a chance he wouldnt even make it. He’s definitely not a bad guy.

Dude literally had brain cancer… he didn’t want to burden his gf, he didn’t know he was a dad, and he lost all of his memories until he was an old man. Wut

you're right. He's just a trash partner. Leaving his gf without a single word.

No, he's trash

you have zero EQ, huh?

He left her becase he knew she would follow her and end up miserable in an unkown country with no one there for her how in the world would she have raised her child there?

Having an illness doesnt excuse you for hurting people "I was going to die so i didn't care if my actions hurt my gf" isn't the excuse you people want it to be.

They have zero EQ and IQ (●￣(ｴ)￣●)

I have seen how hard it is to take care of sick person in real life. My late grandfather was sick and can't do anything except lying on bed for 3 years. We were poor but my mom did everything she can to keep him alive. It was so hard to watch... So I can understand how haebom's father feeling.

He don't want to make his loved one having a hard time. Just imagine if he decide to stay, making haebom's mother take care of her sick husband while being a mom. As he said he'll be in coma for 2 years, and took another years to heal (walk and stuff), and also memory issue. Can u imagine??

I love this manhwa so much, and everytime I came here for new update I always like reading the comment since they're all nice. Your comment really upset me honestly. I know its your freedom but still.. You are really mean.

Incase you read it with ur eyes closed u retarded fuck, you would’ve known she was the type of girl to if he told her she would’ve took care of him but he didn’t wanna burden her of that because his tumor would’ve practically turned him into a vegetable. So no just say u lack basic comprehension skills, always u bitches that only read bl for the sex sounding ignorant asf!!!

No cause why do you assume she would be miserable?? There's no way for you or him to know it.
He took the easy route FOR HIM. Not for her.

Bet you this person is max 12 years old. Hopefully that part of their brain grows in soon.

Exactly!! Don’t waste your breath on that ignorant idiot. Your totally right this manwha is not for the lacking.

No exactly, it’s always the hoes that read bl souly for the sex.

It was not AT ALL easy fir him you have no idea how it feels to go through something like that alone without any support he did everything to not burden the one he loved and I would have probably done the same thing

And why is that a bad thing!!! She would have taken care of him and his baby, like a million of other families do when one of them gets an illness! You guys acting like it's impossible it's laughable.

He's just a coward that didnt want to deal with it and ran away.

It's not an excuse, more like he had to choose which one is less likely to hurt her in the long run. He didn't know she was pregnant. If he had told her about the illness, she would have done everything to stay with him, which he didn't want. We're not saying he's a saint, we're saying he was about to die he had to choose what's best for him at that moment, AND as soon as possible. BRO HAD 3 MONTHS TO LIVE

I doubt he meant to leave her permanently. He was coming off with the intention of telling her after the surgey, but he went into a coma and lost his memories for 30yrs. He could've communicated better but the decision wasn't made with malice

Exactly when my grandmother was sick wwe had to do everything for from cleaning her excrement to feeding her like a child it was a big hit to her pride she prayed for her death because she would rataher die than have to be taken care of like a baby it was very humilating for her, haeboom's father probably felt like that too AND also that he does not want her to spend her money on him knowing he might not make it out alive

This is an example of a person who has low IQ and EQ.

coming from someone that has to deal with an extremely sick family member that was basically paralyzed, it's AWFUL no matter how much you love your family feelings become conflicting because their existence will literally hold you down

and this is you guys problems "i would have done the same so any criticism to the character is criticism to ME"

You really do live in a fairytale world don't you?

great, and my point is exactly that. He didnt give a fuck about her feelings, he did what was best for him and that was hurting her and running away.

You seem to be missing that HE FORGOT ABOUT HER EXISTENCE AFTER THE SURGERY. So you expect her to take care of the man who does know her anymore AND a baby, in a country she has no foundation in, after uprooting her entire life back home?

Tell me you're a child with no life experience and a delusion worldview without telling me you're a child with no life experience and a delusion worldview

lmao nice try. you're not not even capable of comprehending the simple concept of selflessness.

Just imagine if you're being haebom's mother. First time mom, having to take care newborn baby. Having sick husband that only have months to live. Just imagine the stress and pressure she must endure. Just so you know having baby for the first time is hard, lots of stress and mood swings that hard to control because of hormon issues. In that condition she must face her sick husband which she didn't know when he'll pass away.

Honestly if it was me I'll just kms since I can't handle the stress and all.

More like you guys act like taking care of disable or sick family members is the worst thing that could ever happen to someone.

It was a tumor, you look over the fact that if he stayed the family would only suffer more.
For example, the mother would’ve undergo stress of trying to take care of the baby and a sick husband, Also! If he didn’t leave he wouldn’t have been able to get the surgery, but let’s assume he did, he was in a coma then rehabilitate then also his memories were gone so how hard do you think that would be if your boyfriend couldn’t remember who you are? Exactly it would be hurtful, your blind eyes only see the small picture he left yes but to any logical person you’d be able to see that it was the RIGHT choice. So you only sound ignorant and stupid and your point you believe in is just you too embarrassed to admit your in the wrong.

this was directed at another response but gosh are they exhausting...

this is crazy bro. have you even taken care of someone terminal before? I have, and it was nothing short of traumatising. I would never choose to burden my loved ones if given the chance. you're gonna have to step outside your bubble and realise that you have a very naive worldview of illness. not mention, taking care of a patient AND an infant??? y'all are insane.

okay then, you do it, since it's soooo easyyyyy

- hook up with a guy
- get pregnant
- move to his country that you don't know anything about
- leave everything you know and love behind
- stay by his side as he completely forgets about you after surgery
- give birth and take care of him and the baby, which also means you need to get a job, take care of the house, bills, etc IN A COUNTRYYOU DONT KNOW BTW

Bro just say "I'm a child who doesn't know anything about anything and move on"

you guys really thing the right thing to do for ill people is leave their families? And im the ignorant one?!

Did you only read the first sentence and give up? Respond to the rest of the comment.

They way some of you talk about your family members like taking care of them was the worst thing that ever happened to you....

I hope they never felt like you wished for them to dissapear cause some of these comments are evil.

Clearly my point glided over ur smooth brain, your a idiot and u lack reading comprehension skills

Exactly what I was gonna say but this kid’s never gonna get it… just look at all their replies lol

Bro, seriously, your reading comprehension is wild. No one said they refused to take care of their sick family member, they did. And it was hard, even traumatizing. Nobody wants their loved ones to get sick. We’re sharing our experiences because you’re acting like it’s easy, like taking care of a sick husband and a baby is no big deal, or that “just moving abroad together” is some simple fix.

He made a choice, and his reasons make sense, they’re realistic. Leaving his loved ones wasn’t easy. Facing his illness alone wasn’t easy. It took him years to get his memories back. That doesn’t make him evil. He suffered too. And when he remembered, he still came back, even knowing his son would hate him and his wife was gone.

And yet here you are, turning him into some kind of villain just because his decision doesn’t fit your fantasy version of loyalty.

It is one of the hardest things in the world and more so the whole migration process can take YEARS and how in the world is she supposed to live there without anybody's help genius?? Do you really think migration is that EASY ?

Who will allow her to work in such a short notice she wouldn't even be able to get permanent citizenship like that

Or maybe hear me out WE EMPATHISE WITH HIS CIRCUMSTANCES AND UNDERSTAND WHY HE DID WHAT HE DID the author was portraying a realistic event people like you won't understand that because you love living in your la la land like bffr

prob ragebaiting

Some of you do not only lack a functioning brain but you also don’t have any soul. It’s like you didn’t even read the chapter to understand it but only read it to criticize it. How can he be a deadbeat father when he didn’t even know he was a father? He clearly said he lost his memories for close to our even up to 40 years, and only started to remember some things bit by bit until a year ago, and then he started to do his own research before coming to look for his son, and you are calling a deadbeat. Do you even know the true meaning of that word? You’re a fool.

do you guys read what you write? MIGRATION?! Dude this is a FICTIONAL STORY.

If the author wants him to jump to freaking mars to have his treatment he would. WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT.

I didnt say it's easy I said taking care of a sick family members is normal, we're all going to get sick at some point, either by getting old or sickness. But people out here are really acting like his choice was the only logical answer instead of a selfish one.

Tho after reading how people talk about their sick family members and how much they resent taking care of them i can see how they think he's in the right.

And im sorry but comments like this have no justification:

"their existence will literally hold you down" (talking about their experience taking care of an ill family member)
"I would never choose to burden my loved ones if given the chance." (I guess they think their loved one CHOOSE to be a freaking burden)
"I would kms if i was him" (nice try. Just because you think you're been self loathing doesnt chage the fact the message is "people that get sick should kill themselves.")

I didnt turn him into a villain, i said he's a coward and i'm not going to change my mind.

I hate the fact that he's going to experience the fruit of HER LABOUR, like seen his son as an adult with the family he's creating for himself, when all he did is leave.

If you read my replies, i did accept he's not a deadbeat father for the reasons you mentioned, and changed it to just a trash person in general.

I understand why he did it, i just so happen to think that makes him a trash human been.

Yeah he's realistic, and realistic people can make selfish, bad or reprimendable choices. You guys equate realistic with irreproachable. Like just because he's a realistic character i'm not allowed to dislike him or his choices.

You guys are ok with his actions? good for you, i literally dont give a fuck, im not trying to change a single one of you guy's opinion. I'm only responding cause this is my comment so i assume if you're responding TO ME is cause you want to have a discussion, other than that i dont care if he's your favorite character and think he cant do no wrong.

You’re missing the point completely. He didn’t leave because he was selfish, he left because he was dying. He faced a terminal diagnosis and a dangerous surgery alone. That’s not cowardice, that’s someone trying to protect the people he loves from the pain of watching him fade away.

Walking away knowing everyone would hate him takes a different kind of courage. It’s easier to stay and get comfort, it’s much harder to leave everything behind and bear the loneliness alone.

So no, he’s not reaping “the fruit of her labour.” He’s carrying the weight of what he lost , his family, his wife, his chance to live after losing his memories. That’s not something to envy, that’s tragedy.

And for the million time, other people get diagnosed too and they dont abandon their family/ loved ones. He decided his illness meant he was going to leave. You can say he's trying to protect her, i call that condescending and cowardness. Specially cause it's not like the alternative wan't going to hurt her anyways, he choose the "hurt" more convenient TO HIM.

"It’s easier to stay and get comfort, it’s much harder to leave everything behind and bear the loneliness alone." I disagree, staying and actually confront things head on is always going to require more courage than hidding.


He's going to benefit for the son she raised, and the effort SHE PUT into her family. And a tragedy? Sure his life sucked, but he got a second chance: a son willing to listen to his side of the story and im sure in the future, he'll get to be part of his family, thats far from my definition of tragedy.

Being abandoned by your bf and having to raise a child alone is a tragedy.
Dying and making your kid an orphan cause he doesnt have a dad is a tragedy.

I accidentally downvote, I meant to upvote your comment!! Σ(っ°Д °;)っ

Right!! Honestly I don’t get the others taking Dohu’s side and blaming Juheon, like he was the problem to begin with. He refuses to communicate and he refuses to be honest so what do you expect from Juheon? You expect him to sit and watch you stomp on his feelings cause you want to use him for your script? Juheon isn’t perfect but he was an open book with you from the beginning, and lets say Dohu loves Juheon but he is scared or whatever because of his situation, he could have at least opened up to Juheon and dealt with it together instead of pretending you don’t even give a shit about him

as someone who can relate to the MC, its only natural wanting to patch up things with someone who misunderstands u but still find yourself scared when you finally have the chance right in front of your eyes.... fearing that it might not go well or it might sound different from what i wanna convey always stops me from taking a step forward... (〒﹏〒) sometimes we need a good timing or a little nudge to talk out things... ｡:ﾟ(;´∩`;)ﾟ:｡ anyhow both of them are equally hurting they just the wrong person at the wrong time ackkk

I do relate to that too, but that’s what’s causing the whole problem, but what is he gaining out of this? What are you gonna lose if you talked it out with Juheon? The guy literally cares about you despite your nonchalant attitude.. honestly at this point both gotta stop and talk things out and especially Duho he needs to stop being stubborn it’s stressing me out (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

even its political marriage, sometimes the two in it become so close they actually fall in love. so in here, maybe he didn’t fall in love but he felt something akin to that, but rishar crushed his hopes saying that to him

Because Etty was always nice to him so he developed feelings for Etty. It's very clear that he likes Etty and doesn't mind the marriage. He is just hurt that Etty doesn't feel the same.

… woah…. I mean I don’t think he’s that bad?…

I guess at least op is aware and honest that they're bad :]

thanks, i try everyday to be worst!

rooting for u