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What are they?
I’m tired of commenting on everyone else posts, so I’ll make my own. I’ll go through ever point I’ve seen, and explain why it’s incorrect. Match your point to mine to see an explanation.
“They’ve played multiple times before and did worse”
Yes, but consent does not carry. Especially in bdsm. Just because someone agreed once before, does not give their partner the right to their body indefinitely. In real bdsm, each play is discussed beforehand and is approved on by both parties. Clearly this didn’t happen, because chanwoo was shocked at md’s instructions.
“It’s bdsm they can be hit”
No. Bdsm is consensual, and chanwoo did not and can not consent.
“Why can’t he consent?”
He is shown several times to be mentally and emotionally incapable. Md choked him to see if he was capable of saying the safeword. It was confirmed that he couldn’t when he did not say it. Chanwoo is shown with a bruised face and repeatedly brushes off concern with “I’m fine”.
“He knows how md feels but he goes to the other guy anyways”
A person is never, ever obligated to return someone’s unrequited feelings. After md confessed, chanwoo politely refused And wished to keep a casual bdsm relationship. Because they stated beforehand that they want their bdsm and romantic lives separate, md’s feelings do not belong in their plays.
“How is he being manipulated? This is unrelated to their plays”
Yes, personal feelings should be left out of bdsm. MD knows that, but he puts them there anyways. Md also knows that chanwoo values him as a bdsm partner and as a friend, so when chanwoo attempted to introduce md to his boyfriend and he clearly was upset, no plays should’ve been initiated until md could cool down his feelings. Chanwoo was given an ultimatum, in that he either participate in the play or never communicate with md again. He fears losing md, so he agrees despite clearly not wanting to. This is coercion, and a coerced person cannot consent.
“Md is upset because chanwoo hurt his feelings so that’s why he hit him like that”
Again, unrequited feelings are never obligated to be returned, and personal feelings have no place in a casual bdsm relationship. Yes this hurt his feelings, but hurt feelings are never an excuse to coerce or hurt another person.
“He deserves it”
No one deserves abuse. Ever.
“How is it abuse”
It is abuse because he cannot consent. No consent = abuse/rape.
“I’ve been in a bdsm relationship that had plays exactly like this and I’m fine”
I’m sorry you’ve been abused before, but you should not use it as leverage to excuse other abuse.
“It’s just fiction why are you mad”
I, and many others, are mad because this abuse is being disguised as bdsm. This is harmful to the bdsm community, because it puts us in a bad light, and relates us to abusers. We are only attempting to keep our community’s image clear.
Don't be shy~
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i swear i didn't put mars
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Carti> You
He/They/She
Bi
I am perfect
Balls
I AM NOT A FURRY
I DO NOT have piss kink or scat kink
BREAKDANCE IS ALWAYS BREAKDANCE YOO
Alfa Patinas.
I wish I was aborted.
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Born this way
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I simply wanna die
Hi, before you read my ramblings, BL novel recs are very welcome owowowo.
Im aware no one cares enough
to read this. But im taking the
0,0009% chance!
I have no ill intents. I just want to say
this before it happens. If one day,
mangago gets shut down, just like a
lot of other piracy sites, i'd be lying if
i say it didnt upset me. I've read many
great stories here without spending
a fraction. I've made great memories
while being in this website. But it wont
justify my actions, reading these
artworks for free. I shouldnt do this.
I know very well that art is a very hard
thing to do, because
i myself draw, but i still read some
of these stories for free. Now that i
have my own money though, I
started to buy stories that are on
Tappytoon only, because the payment
method is very easy! So, I encourage
you to do the same. Also, pay
attention if the stories are free (ex.
Heaven Officials Blessing).
Please visit their respective website
to support the authors.
I wish mangago will at least still be a
website where people can share the
stories they read, discuss about the
things they read, provide links to their
original websites and maybe also
provide unofficial translations (text
only) by fans. That will probably be
very hard to do though.
Anyways...
Look how i organized these. Isn't
that cat cute? It looks horrible on
desktop though because of the
different font, spacing and stuff.
Anyways, i did all of this to promote
my fav BL's and authors. i'm sorry if
this kinda came across as me saying
that you guys have the attention span
of a 5 year old. But at the same time,
i have to make this bio as attractive
as possible for people to take a
second glance and read it.
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I hope someone cares
enough to read this
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I'm the type of person who doesnt
really care about plot. Im not
looking for some mind boggling,
unique, never seen before, original
plots. As long as the atmosphere is
good, the characters are great and
their motives makes sense, thats
already perfect. What i'm saying is,
as long as it's an amazing read, i'm
fine with overdone plots. I think thats
also why i enjoy rereading amazing
stories.
I am very picky about BL. I used to
always read any updated BL. But now,
i'd drop anything that doesnt pique
my interest.
I don't have any specific trope that
i like. As long as it's a good read,
i'd like any kind of trope.
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my BL preferences
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http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/429483/
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my favourite BL authors
• Takahashi Hidebu • Azuma Kaya
• Asada Nemui • Syundei
• Inutoki / Shouhei • Fuji Tobi
• Kimura Hidesato • ROM-13
• Yamanaka Hiko • Hakase
• Basso
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my ratings
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i am pretty careful on rating
these mangas lol. As you can see,
there are very few 10/10 ratings.
『 10/10 』
is basically perfect for me.
『 9/10 』
are really good reads.
『 8/10 』
is the most standard
rating. They are good
and enjoyable mangas.
『 7/10 』
are good mangas. But
sometimes i just find them
a bit stupid.
『 6/10 』
are mangas that i thought
are pretty stupid.
Then theres the lower ones
that are obviously worse.
I started doing this just recently.
So, i havent rated a lot yet.
But there's quite a handful already.
Some might have nothing in it yet.
『 10/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/10%2F10/
『 9/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/9%2F10/
『 8/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/8%2F10/
『 7/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/7%2F10/
『 6/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/6%2F10/
『 5/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/5%2F10/
『 4/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/4%2F10/
『 3/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/3%2F10/
『 2/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/2%2F10/
『 1/10 』
http://www.mangago.me/people/tag/128467/1%2F10/
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onto some nonsense!
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Digital Art
ʸᵉˢ ⁱ ˡⁱᵏᵉ ᵈʳᵃʷⁱⁿᵍ
i've liked drawing ever since i
was little and i'm hoping to get
a stable career from it. Maybe
you want to check out some of
my drawings?
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look at my album
http://www.mangago.me/home/album/92920/
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my instagram account
https://instagram.com/nervouskkgrass
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my ibispaint account
https://ibispaint.com/artist1/993419022384349192/
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Feel free to also share your
drawing accounts with me!
Let's be drawing buddies!
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Songs
I like vocaloid/utaite/japanese
songs. One of my most favourite
is A sardine grows from the soil
by an artist whose name i cant
mention owo.
I made a quora answer about
vocaloid. I put my song
recommendations there, so if
youre interested you might
wanna check it out teehee...
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song recs
https://www.quora.com/What-is-compelling-about-Vocaloids/answer/Karin-Beast
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Tried it once and I would never do it again