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You're looking at this from the perspective of someone who probably hasn't been around/experienced actual adult relationships... If anything, it's pretty common for people to become trapped within an abusive or toxic relationship, it's not easy to leave one, especially if it's complicated and comes with a lot of emotional baggage... This relationship, though, isn't typical, so it's not like you can compare it to typical toxic relationships (or relationships in general)... What's realistic about this is the humanity of it; the circumstances the characters are in (scammer and juvenile victim) and the ways they react to one another given their particular back stories... This author specifically is pretty good at poratraying realistic emotions, which is probably what people (who are calling this story "realistic") are referring to.

People who've been in toxic relationship can't just 'leave' even if they already left. People are broken down into pieces to the point they feel lost so people who just got out of a toxic relationship might find themselves in another cycle. It is sad but that's reality too, people who left and still got themselves intact are lucky but not everyone is like them. Whether you like it or not, to some people, this is realistic. Especially those who've been in abusive relationships and have been much worse. They stay on things that they are familiar of even if it hurts them because they think that's all they know. It's sad and again, that's still the reality of a lot men and women today. It's easier said than done.

And let me add, this stance is actually more unrealistic because a whole lot of people are victims of domestic violence. If they could have just get up and leave like you're referring to, there won't be people with severe trauma, trust issues and commitment issues from their past relationship. People won't even know they're in a toxic/abusive/both relationship. Domestic violence in its entirity won't exist if people can just get up and leave.

Don't assume and make remarks like oh you don't know because you probably haven't been in that type of situation. Really people when did I meet u all and how the fuck do any of you know me enough to say this shit?

Honestly yes I have been in a few toxic relationships my very first was with a married man ( I didn't know that at the time found out a bit later) so please get off laying on me for my opinion.

The person was just assuming because you claim for it to be unrealistic when it's actually realistic. You can't fault people for saying stuff like that when you also assumed other people's lives like they can get up and leave from a toxic and abusive relationship. Just because you walk out and leave doesn't mean that's the same for everybody. That's your perspective not them. Before you claim it's unrealistic, make sure that IT IS unrealistic or you're just backhandedly telling domestic violence victims that they don't exist.

We're also expressing our opinion so you can't just tell us to 'lay off' espcially this is a public platform, pirated at that. We're entitled to disagree with your opinion especially how tone deaf it is

Do you want to look at my countries stats like no Im not assuming anything about a specific person like that first comment was I was generally speaking here. Most people leave after having enough they don't constantly run after their unrequited first love for decades especially after being scammed. In fact this is not about domestic violence victims. Nobody said anything about this. The uke was taken by a con artist seme so was his sister realizing the truth most people would just leave matters to the police or get revenge but it's sad and toxic how the uke wastes his life chasing this creep seme, most people won't in general do what he did. It's fucking toxic and hella sad.
Really are we discussing the manga or your own personal grudge against my opinion? Please stick to the topic this is not a place to cyber bully, throw personal insults and make up stuff that I never said, no where in this manga is the ukes situation anything to do with domestic violence the semes story has parts like that what with his mom and stuff but I'm only talking about the uke. The manga is mostly from his perspective he is the mc here and it's his situation I'm talking about. So lay off disagree all you want but don't act like a bully.

you're the one being rude here, ghorly. You're the one acting defensive and thinking we're bullying you when we only calmly stated that the way you view this relationship is unrealistic. Of course toxicity has something to do with toxic violence, most especially how it all starts with a toxic relationship and you can bring out all the statistics that you want from your country, it doesn't really make me less disagreeing with you, that you're tone deaf. You keep repeating that 'most' people leave, as I said again, that's not the consensus, it is hard to get out of a toxic relationship and again, if toxic relationship was easy to get out these most people that you called of won't have there fair shair of emotional and mental issues. A lot of people got killed or went back to the same toxic cycle but to a different person because the hold of the person who manipulated them is still affecting them. They took years of therapy for them to breathe even a little. Like ghorly, you're even toxic yourself, trying to play the victim because we don't agree with you. You're acting like we're calling you derogatory words when we didn't even implied anything. If you got offended by being called tone deaf, look it up because it doesn't correlate into us calling you these so called 'names.' Calm your horses, check yourself because this offensive strat of yours sn't a good look on you just because we don't have the same views as you. This isn't cyberbullying this is people arguing over the internet over differences of opinion.

Also, grow up, if you can't take other people's opinion towards and try to play the victim, that's like the pot calling the kettle black. And this so called 'personal insults' and making stuff up? ghorl, sit down, no one is making shit up and throwing personal insults at you, if you think that you being called tone deaf is a personal insult, then better check google for the definition. Again, domestic violence stems from toxic relationship, it didn't come out of nowhere and you just assuming that the major consesus of people got up and leave is tone deaf and I will never change my stance. I've already explained calmly into why people still stay in relationship like this and most especially I didn't just spout it out of my ass, I study psychology, my parents are in a toxic relationship and still is that it fucked me and my brother up, my country's family units are mostly composed of families like me. And btw, people leave when they're not too far gone and are not invested in the relationship so lucky for them. I literally study this course to understand this topic that we're arguing about. So no, ma'am, don't act like a victim trying to make us the bully when no one is bullying you. That shit is disgusting, manipulative and toxic.

It actually shows your true colors. Again, no one is bullying you, you're the one putting yourself in that weird ass mindset that we're bullying you because we disagreed with you. Didn't even attack you personally or even called you stupid but no, you're going to play the victim. Isn't that toxic itself? lmao

you're the one being rude btw, not us. You're the one who got offended for disagreeing with you and when I'm still calmly explaining my argument you resulted on calling me a bully. lmao okay,ghorly. Like that's not toxic at all. You can't play that game on me and I'm not gonna say sorry for something that I didn't do and make me feel bad for you, that shit is manipulative.

It's called cyber bullying when you throw personal insults at a person on an online platform with multiple comments that disrespect and disregard their opinions on a harmful and hurtful level. I have never thrown a personal insult to you, you saying things like that shows your true colors (I'm black so this can be taken as a racist comment ), saying things like grow up is attacking personally. Also I'm not playing a game here or a victim you are a toxic person here not me. It's my comment and opinion you constantly trying to disagree whilst not hearing what I'm saying about the manga is what's disturbing. Really it's my opinion I'm not changing it and you are free to disagree but no personal insults like you know me or what kind of person I am. It's mangago not Facebook or discord etc.

Man, you really are reaching here. No one is bullying you, showing your true colors is a metaphor and how would I know you're black? Ghorl, take the L and go. You're using the race card and trying to play as a victim? You're disgusting. You can't even accept other people's opinion and you're whining about how we can't when we politely informed you of your misinformation towards toxic relationship? Ghorl, sit down. I'm poc myself but you don't see me bringing my race into this. You know what, your mentality and attitude is disgusting. You take everything as offensive and a 'personal insult' when none of those didn't even demean you in anyway. Grow up, just because people don't agree with you, you're gonna scream you're being bullied. You're taking away the credibility of people who are actually bullied while you're here pretending. I'm not gonna play with your games and don't try to paint me into something I'm not especially don't try to spin the narrative because what you're doing is disgusting, hypocritical, toxic and vile.

People like you disgust me. I'm not even gonna be 'nice' anymore. And it's not because your black because you might bring your race into it but your character as a person. Playing the victim? Lying? Spinning a different narrative because we didn't agree with you? You're actually the one who is toxic. You're gonna get offended again and I don't care. This isn't bullying but criticism towards your character as a person. I can already tell with how you acted in this thread.

I'm done talking with you, I already poured my time over this useless argument with a toxic person like you. Anyway, thanks for this because anyone who will read your comment can safely deduct that you were crying wolf.

A cyber bully actually further insulting and name calling man you as toxic as you claim I am. The community should have less people like you who want to force their views onto others and criticize others who disagree or have diverging opinions. Seriously get a life stop spamming my comment with your acid divil of personal insults this is a comments section for the manga not your personal grudges or for you to vent your issues onto others, you can disagree but be civil and no personal insults and bullying. It's sad that you don't even know what you are doing is wrong. Me saying that this manga is unrealistic is my opinion and based on my town's stats I'm generalizing this based on that facts. Stick to topic we all do not need your personal hate here.