Abel✯lied's Topics (622)

I really hope that the author meant it from the stand point of forcing the gf to abort when she doesn’t want it. But I don’t think it’ll go the way I think tho T-T

Japan is a pronatalist nation. The mangaka is not alone in her viewpoint.

Abortions are permitted up to 22 weeks and are not covered under the national insurance, so tmir has to be paid for out of pocket.

IUDs and oral contraceptives are uncommon. Plan B/Morning After Pill is not easy to acquire.

In any case, they're both in the wrong. Primarily ML because he should have been honest about WHY he doesn't want children and his trauma.

Bro the heck what abt when boys ghost girls after having sex or worse after the girl gives him her virginity?

I mean those are both bad, but being married wouldn't make that any better right? If the guy is so uncaring, that'd he'd ghost you after sex, he wouldn't make a great husband. My argument is about being certain of how your life would be like as a married couple, before you get married. Better for a guy to tell you "I guess I'm not into women" after stealing your virginity in an unfortunate first relationship, than an unfortunate first marriage.

U can still get to know each other before u just get married, when u realize u don't wanna have a future with ur current partner then u just break up and still not have had sex with them. I'm aware manipulative ppl exist but its not the case for everyone. If u keep having sex with ppl ur dating without marriage then ur chances of catching diseases and what not also increase.(its not like ppl get married 3-4 times in 2yrs)

Oh also POS who are like the ppl u mentioned at the end break up with u or cheat on u and get caught(everyone does eventually) cuz they can't wait so long. Regardless everyone is entitled to their own opinion after all

I don't think that you have to be unkind or manipulative, to realize you don't want to continue a relationship after having sex with somebody.

Maybe one person has a high libido and the other doesn't really like sex that much at all. Maybe one enjoys some freaky stuff, but their partner does not. Maybe they realize they're gay after having sex with the opposite gender for the first time.

None of these make someone a bad person or an uncaring partner, but they might make someone think "I don't want to have this kind of sex for the rest of my life". It's better to realize that before you get married, to avoid the heartache, the financial burden, the legal troubles and just social tension in general.

I'm not saying have sex as soon as you start dating, but that you might not want to legally and financially bind yourself to a person who might be incompatible with you for whatever reason. I also think this about other aspects of relationships, like cohabitation and family plans. You don't want to find out your partner doesn't know how to wash the dishes and wants you to bear 10 children after marriage.

Also don't be silly, wrap your willy. If you're in a relationship with someone and they aren't dickheads, they'll tell you if they have some active STD and probably use protection regardless.

Umm.....everything you listed is something I thought (except those who realise after getting married) ppl are supposed to communicate. I mean I'm aware that many(if not most) ppl don't really have a convo abt their preferences in the bed unless they're in the act but here's the thing, like hear me out, if yk u want a future with a person

Surely you should have a convo abt ur preferences and such at some point. Although I get that with ppl being judgemental and stuff one may not exactly feel comfortable. I'm just saying don't just say that waiting till marriage is all wrong and all. If someone failed to communicate that is something they gotta work on. Ah also, unfortunately for no one I don't have a willy ;)

The problem is, most people won't really know their preferences, it they've never had sex before. Reading or watching porn of it is one thing, but it's not the same as experience, so discussing it before might not solve that issue. I agree that communication of preferences is something once should work on, big you can't share your preferences, if you have no idea what they are.
I don't think it's

*I don't think it's "wrong" to wait until marriage, as it doesn't affect anyone else, but it's not a great thing either. I don't see what difference it makes whether you wait until you're both sure of yourselves, and until you're ready to marry, except one has tons of paperwork, financial cost and other issues. You're just risking a lot of unnecessary issues for no reason at all.

Alright

Literally like that is so painful how can ppl do it and enjoy it right after it's been torn that is so inaccurate

They want the heterosexual imagery of a deflowered virgin bleeding for the first time without considering: That's a bum. Poo comes out of that. His rectum is teared and shit will get in the wound. Of his anal. That is teared.

HELP ME THE WAY YOU SAID "That's a bum" ACTUALLY SENT ME HAHAH but literally yeah and in some they don't even clean it before they do it and that sounds so unhygienic

Omg, I've never thought about it that way.
It makes so much sense though, which is dumb because I've seen that sort of scenes in works with not virgin adults like this redhead .

And it does nothing more that makes us readers uneasy or worried for the bottom.

Whats worse is even in heterosexual sex you shouldn't bleed lmao. They're still tearing the woman sobs

Given how the author is plotting i 100% dont think him being a dad is gonna be the first course of action. Unless there is significant plot/character development i dont see it happening or atleast as of now

I fuckinf take that back wtf why would you say yes

Trust the author, the last panel gives me hope, and they've defied our expectations so far

No, no same. As much as I like how this story deals with mystery solving, I just wished it had more time to process and deal with the characters' possible emotions with the given situation. It would've felt more fleshed out.

OMG SO REAL. like why are we just glossing over it? A princess died. Even if she wasn't that influential she was still a princess. I just feel like they should explore that emotion with stabbing someone a little more clearly then anything. And the fact that the MC is just trying to prove herself innocent is crazy. Like she doesn't even care about her friend.

The only one who showed any emotion for the Princess was the queen

Exactly, but still. No one else did. They glossed it over, which to me, is very upsetting.

well ig it’s bc she’s realistically an adult inside and she has a hunch about what’s really happening—it’s not only about proving herself innocent but proving if her hunch is correct as well

I totally forgot she was an adult inside.
！Σ(￣□￣;). Maybe your right but it's still upsetting to me. She had like 5 seconds of regret and now trying to prove a hunch. Idk (ー_ー;)

The circumstances are suspicious, what’s the point of crying over someone when you have a good idea that they might not even be dead. Not to mention, a lot of people live in denial even for YEARS after someone’s death, let alone right after it with weird circumstances. Is it really that weird she’s not crying her eyes out and tries to confirm it first? Also, would u rather have her screaming in grief rather than potentially saving the princess’s life? I think the royal couple is the weirdest here, as they didn’t even bother to check on their daughter or even send someone to retrieve her.

That’s true, tbh I find the royal couple the weirdest. They didn’t even bother to send someone for their daughter, be it to help or at the very least retrieve her body

What makes you think she doesn’t even care? She’s the only one actually going back to find out what really happened, she finds circumstances suspicious. She’s clearly shown to be unsure of hurting her, so she probably has a good idea that she didn’t actually die. If MC is innocent then the princess probably isn’t dead, that’s how I see her approach. To me it seems like MC is the only one who actually cares. Her parents didn’t even bother to try to help her. And so what if the queen “griefs her”, they didn’t even send anyone to retrieve her. Stabbing doesn’t instantly kill you, especially in the world of magic, I’m sure they could’ve done better than “leaving her to die”.