
I feel like more than just his thing of having no feelings I think it’s just his way of loving someone, hear me out - basically what I think is that his feelings grew with time and with the stability that their relationship brought to him made him feel at ease, not the feelings itself but his IDEA of stability and happiness with someone who’s willing to give him their all and stay with until the end. So I’m a bit sad for him because I understand his feeling but on the other hand being honest until the very start with his partner is more important so I hope they will be able to talk it trough together and then go Yoomin get your beautiful chef !!!

I’m sad for him too. He can’t experience romance but he still ‘loves’ Yoomin. Love is pointless as just a feeling, that is fleeting. He loves Yoomin through his actions and how kindly he treats her
He wants her to be incredibly happy and will do anything in their relationship to achieve that except give what he cannot in the first place. It’s why Yoomin had such an amazing time with him up until that phone call and I don’t blame her, it still hurts. But if that isn’t a type of love, even without the romantic strong feelings, then what do we define as love? The problem with him is that he was dishonest with Yoomin about how he operates, and didn’t inform her fully of how he would give his heart in the relationship causing all her pain now. It’s not fair to be deceived that someone romantically loves you too, even if they’re just the same and still care for you
But I do love how the author portrayed this. The main characters and their exes are all very different people!

Thank you so much for your response !! This is exactly how I saw it and I also understood how the author wanted to convey it.
I think along with his definition of love, for the reader we can all portray the idea of how he could’ve felt but Yoomin didn’t know a thing about his kind of love. I think it’s also important when you meet someone that you both know what kind of love you deliver and how you receive it from others and starting to this point you can establish yourself as if you like or not the way the other person loves.
You can still feel and convey love without having the other partner notice it even though you might give your all - and it’s what’s the most sad but still beautiful with love- we could see how much he actually cared for her but she wouldn’t know because the way he conveyed it couldn’t reach her.
As for the beautiful chef, their way of loving are passionate even though it’s possible they have to talk it though with the trauma that they had in their past relationships and I’m sure they will be able to convey it and also show in the same way for Yoomin’s ex that love has different languages and being honest with it is crutial to make a relationship work !!
DON’T PLAY WITH MY FEELINGS LIKE THIS IS IT TO BE CONTINUED OR THE END ???!!! (sobs that was so adorable)