I was curious as to why this was one of the few stories by this author that I didn't have marked, despite being pretty sure I'd read it before. Rereading it made me understand (￣∇￣")
Everyone else:Screaming, crying and throwing up disgusting thoughts
Me: Really emulating Himuro from Ice guy and his female colleague I see. (≧∀≦)
How dare you Author? How dare you give me complex and fleshed our characters that make me furious and hate them one chapter to sobbing for them in the next. ╥﹏╥
Look, I'm aware that breaking up when your relationship is gonna be in a toxic loop and you need some time away isn't the wrong thing. But oh my god, can we stop just one sidedly making decisions for everyone without an actual proper discussion. Like give him a minute after asking/discussing a hard topic to give a response. Geon does need to start trying to be less of a pushover, but in this instance at least, when his mind is so jumbled up with anxieties and things, conceding to Suo like always, doesn't surprise me. Maybe I'm just extra projecting because I know it's something that happens to me a lot, someone asks me a tough question when I'm already in a mentally muddled state, and then won't give me more than 10 seconds to respond. But still, I'm just saying, it takes two to have an actual conversation.
I don't care if she's straight or a gay in denial, but she needs to go figure that shit out in a different room and leave our wholesame baby raising fathers alone. A genuine question or two is one thing, but trying to make him have an "ordinary" relationship is messed up.
My irritation with Suo makes my thoughts all jumbled. Of course they both have their own flaws, however I feel like Suo's respect towards Geon's feelings isn't as much as he thinks. I mean Geon's consistently doing things in order to please Suo, because he loves him and want to make him happy. And Geon not telling him about his past, really isn't Suo's business (apart from like safe sex ie. Avoiding stds, but this is bl manga so that doesn't exist here apparently). A lot of people can have very proactive pasts, but still go on to have very happy relationships without sharing about all their previous partners. So I don't know why Suo feels the need to try and force that information out of him, if he heard about it and is worried or curious, literally just ask, preferably not in a public place. Which is what irritates me the most, nobody wants their personal and private matters to be dished out in a very public place. If Geon said let's talk about it somewhere private, do that. I couldn't even imagine the amount of stress I would go through personally if someone did that to me. Do I think Geon might've escalated things a bit with his break suggestions, yeah, a bit. But he's also clearly overwhelmed by the entire situation, so I'm not entirely surprised it was the first thing he thought of to get out of it. And seeing Suo's past didn't really help my empathy, because it just made me realize he would know that sometimes people really do care too much about other people, he literally got bullied by people like that. So for him to just be like, no here cares, just rubs me the wrong way. I dunno, they just need better communication and learn that even in relationships there can be boundaries or subjects people don't want to talk about. (￣～￣；)
I totally agree.
exactly this. like why's everyone blaming geon wtf he's being cornered like that, in a PUBLIC setting, in korea where same-sex relations are literally a taboo (even now). like??? he just said he would talk but in a more private setting and apparently suo doesn't understand smh and fr he could ask in a more mature way and deal with this situation. it's so bad ugh
I totally agree o. the part where Suo just wanted to talk to Geon ab it publicly. Like he could’ve gone somewhere private just to show he cares about his boyfriend feelings, ESPECIALLY when he knows he hates PDA and such. But where i disagree is about how it none of Suo’s business with Geon’s past, like in retrospect yeah he should mind his business but if people going up to your bf talking about sexergizer, ID BE READY TO ASK HIM AB THAT SHIT TOO. Like to some degree you shouldn’t keep your partner in the dark, especially if multiple people are talking about it openly
Yeah no, I would ask too. I probably wasn't clear about it since I was upset with him while writing. My point on that was basically that he was not asking, he would rather force it out of him than ask. That's what rubbed me the wrong way. I have no issue with him asking, especially with people talking to him about it like you said. But he can't expect Geon to fess up and then get mad when he doesn't because he never asked him about it in the first place. Especially when he says that line, "do I have to force you to tell me so I can tell you I don't mind?" (Not actually a direct quote but what I remember him saying) and it pisses me off because he could just tell Geon about what the people had told him and that his past doesn't bother him. Geon avoids telling him because he's worried it'll put him off, which isn't an irrational fear since too many people come across partner who get into a hissy fit if they weren't a virgin. I dunno, just from my point of view Suo doesn't really have a risk factor if he instead just came out and asked about it, whereas Geon has this anxiety and risk that Suo would leave. (Even though we know he wouldn't.)
NO FR cause Suo really didn’t think ab wtf he was talkin ab and since he acted emotionally, he just assumed that talking ab it right then and there was okay, since he’s a straightforward guy. BUT HOLY FUCK SUO AND GEON, like you’re so right him saying it was okay and he didn’t mind would be sm better IM ACTUALLY CONFUSED WHY HE DIDNT. But Ik a lot of people hate him rn cause of what he did but given his personality and his own insecurities ab the relationship i can get why he thought it wasnt a big deal. I honestly hope they talk this dumb shit out and don’t do that dumb break cause im like 99% sure then gonna overthink it and/or have weird make-up sex(?)
(not saying you said you hated him, i just wanted to see if anyone felt this from him too （￣へ￣）
exactly! it makes me so mad and i just saw another comment blame geon again most of them have never had to worry about coming out in a conservative country like korea
Never thought I'd be so proud to see them not make them pee for a BL, considering how unlikely it is to happen, unless you've got prostate cancer (or a few other issues, but that's the main one for men anyways). ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ But also, please other I need no angst, they can live a happy life. He'll definitely understand when he finds out right? Right???
Sanada just really pisses me off. He was constantly making Itonaga cry throughout the entire manga. I know Itonaga has a part to play in their miscommunication but Sanada plays a bigger one. With every miscommunication that comes about Sanada just makes decisions for everyone, including relationship ruining ones. Only because he's jumping to assumptions without talking to Itonaga. Each time their relationship only gets saved because Itonaga ends up being "selfish". Especially the festival thing, like he didn't even hear or read anything from Itonaga that gave him the idea Itonaga didn't want to go with him, he just heard from someone else say that he seems to not want to go. Like bro, why are you listening to someone else rather than your boyfriend? And that's just the major issue I have with him. I also know it's miscommunication trope but it doesn't upset me any less. (￢Å￢)
Nah. That dude just cries so easily. Even if there was no reason to cry he would suddenly bawl his eyes out.
Exactly.
Look sweetheart, you're very cute. But noone gives two flying fucks about your Uncle. (〜￣△￣)〜
I can't with the lack of communication. I thought y'all started to get more braincells, but I was proven wrong. While I get that worrying your partner can make a topic difficult to bring up. If not bringing it up can pose them more danger, then suck it up. If someone you personally know is being absolutely delusional and slightly aggressive about your boyfriend being theirs, then you inform your boyfriend. He needs to be aware of potential dangerous situations to watch out or have someone watch out for him. Crazy fans who don't get their way have been known to be highly dangerous if not dealt with properly. So please. Stop being an idiot and tell him. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧