I like it. first chap was pretty interesting. thnx translator-san.
well I am awkward like the mc. but to not that extend. I just want sit quietly and want everyone to leave me alone. and don't know what to talk about. cant find any topic. but I have to make a fake smile and continue with them just to fit myself in. and try to change. man. its so hard. why am I like this. ╥﹏╥
I'm the same. Even if I want to talk to someone, I can't because I can't think of anything to talk about that's actually interesting. In the last few months that has started to change a little. I've been listening to a lot of podcasts such as Science VS, Ridiculous History, Invention and Ted Talks on Spotify. I've got a terrible memory so I forget many of the details, but quite a bit of it does stick and I can use that as interesting stock to talk to people with. I don't know if this would interest you in the slightest, but it's working for me.
well for me I want to talk about what is interesting to me. like manga or anime..but my friends doesn't see anime or manga... and I am in versity now so I cant find any topic to talk abou with my new friends.. actually at this point I cant even call them my friends.. coz already groups has been created all throughout the class except for me. ╥﹏╥
That sounds uncomfortably familiar. I try and have the attitude that if I don't know much about a topic, I am perfectly happy to ask questions and learn about it. My problems lies with time. I work in a profession that allows me to stop and chat with people, but I have to always be conscientious of the time. Which means I can't have the in depth conversations I need. Also added problem, everyone around me is either a kid, teen, parent and grandparent... nobody even close to my age :'(. So if I tried harder and asked some of the interesting people I run into out for milkshakes (instead of coffee since I don't drink it) I could certainly have more friends, but they would all be older. Add in a second job that is an hour away and the whole thing becomes time complicated.
I started as a page at a library, my job was to re-shelve all the books that come in, in a day. Because of the nature of the position I could choose whether I wanted to try talking to people or not. Now I am a library assistant at (the same) small public library. My job is to talk to people and answer their questions to the best of my ability using the tools available.
I have grown tremendously over the last few years. You may not believe me but five years ago I was a hermit who never left my room unless it was for class (college), I did chat with some class mates who didn't scare me, but it was never real friendship. Coincidentally, that was around when I discovered anime and manga, it was my escape from reality, to a place where time did not seem to step foot (aka my bedroom).
Anyway, I would definitely encourage you to try to be more social, it's a skill set that only really has positive outcomes.
I am part of my community now, I go to community dinners where I have an opportunity to sit and chat with my neighbors, I get to learn about their surprising and interesting lives.
Additionally, I volunteer as a tech tutor and as a laborer at a furniture thrift store. I find volunteering therapeutic and exhilarating. It's a bit of a high to surpass your own evaluations of your abilities.
Lastly, you called me tough, well the Shaolin Monks build up their hand toughness by continuously thrusting them into pots full of sand. It's one step at a time, or one hand thrust at a time that builds toughness. Or even better yet, one conversation at a time.
If you want it bad enough, you will get there. It just takes time. We only have one life to live and I don't want to waste it hiding from myself and the world. I want to experience it in all it's splendor. I want to do something that only I can do, to make the world just a little better and the people around me, just a little happier.
Unfortunately I'm not very smart, I don't pick stuff up very easily and I miss social ques. It just means I have to try harder, listen to more podcasts, have many, many more conversations and ask as many questions as I have the opportunity of as many different people as I can. Maybe then I'll figure out the surest way to a better world for everyone, including me.
does this have a novel? I couldn't find any though.
It's not translated. There's a petition on novel updates hoping someone will pick it up: https://forum.novelupdates.com/threads/its-sudden-but-i-came-to-another-world-but-i-hope-to-live-safely.84473/











novel was better than manga. but I'll stil read it anyway. ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
care to share the novel link? (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
https://www.novelupdates.com/series/it-seems-like-i-got-reincarnated-into-the-world-of-a-yandere-otome-game/