Muki's Things

I've gotten my nose pierced twice and both times it
ended up infected. I really love nose piercings and how it looks on other girls. I want to try again but I dont
know what I'm doing wrong (I don't know anything
about piercings). I cleaned it twice a day with antibacterial soap and a qtip drying it with a paper towel. I do
admit I would touch it and move it sometimes when it got uncomfortable, should I not do that? The last time I got it pierced the stud was going into the piercing
hole, is that normal? Please help and give me some
advice on how to care for it correctly. I know Im
probably doing it very wrong.I really want to
try again and have a successful piercing this time but I dont know if i should

My birthday is coming up and I was thinking about getting my first tattoo! I really like the idea of a butterfly tattoo (they've been very symbolic for me). I'm indecisive about placement, I really like the inner upper arm and the ribcage but do those spots hurt more/less? I would kinda like to place it somewhere less visible but I still want it to look good. Please share your opinions on the placement/what would hurt less and maybe some advice! I would really appreciate it :)