
Whatever i read..be it shoujo,yaoi,psycological...Be it from anyone's POV eife,husbands,side chicks or dicks... Be it any situation be it lust,not being able to control oneself or for emotional support.. one thing i can't able to enjoy is cheating.i really can't forgive them. That's why i tend to ignore this type of stories where they forgive the cheater or make this type of peace.. even if i am not in the story..i feel betrayed and pathetic when they stay together with the cheater.. if only i had not read the other story, i would not have read this story. I feel so conficted..

I think you need to wrap yourself around the concept of different types of relationships. Broaden your senses a little, everything isn't black and white.
For instance, in cases of polyamory, do you think three or more people just suddenly decide that "Hey, we all suddenly love each other, let's be in a relationship"?
When is it cheating, really, if a person is interested in someone else than their partner? When they think about them, when they talk to them, when they admit their love for them - or is it only when they touch them?
Relationships are complicated because humans are complex.
And actually, what I find the most appealing about this story, is the fact that it's not afraid to explore these boundaries.

Agree. I HATE cheating. WHATEVER excuse those cheaters have. Cheaters will always be cheaters, and the worst type of cheaters are the ones who grabs for reasons to justify their lack of commitment.
Love for me is a special bond between me and my partner. If we put that bond on sale on a discount rack, there's nothing more special about it.
I'd rather break up than letting the one I give my one love having multiple holes to fuck. Heh. Like there's no fish in the sea other than them. Cheateeers lol.

Absolutely.. there are two thing's I just can't accept. 1. cheater 2. being used as previous boyfriend or girlfriend's replacement.
either you stay with the uke or go back to your side chick or dick you were fucking.
again you stay with the uke or go back to your previous bf or gf. don't you dare use the uke as their replacement.

i do get your point. a person can't be like 'I like two person. so let's have a relationship and try to do our best.' it can also happen later when two person is already committed. But here if you see.. you'll see that the husband slept with uke without telling anything to his partner (it would be different if the husband already told about his preference to his wife. and the wife gave her consent about this type of relationship) so in my eyes it was cheating. and then when the wife gets to know about it she behaved (though she did show her cool side) as if she was okay with her husband cheating around because she knows he loves her. all I can see here is that the husband got the long end of the stick without any effort. having both the cool wife and our (maybe)uke. because we don't know how this story is going to wrap up.
so I have no problem with the concept of polygamy or polymory. but what I have problem with is that how the husband cheated. and how the wife let it slide like it's no big deal.

you guys need to understand that yakuza men are usually pretty "loose" and their wives know it. i ofc dont want to be cheated on and dont with that to anyone but you need to look at the story outside of your own experiences and opinions and accept that characters "think" differently and are from different world.
This is the only manga where i have stopped enjoying the sex.
I agree. ╥﹏╥