
Is this like one of those really toxic relationships, like is my blood gonna boil pls lemme know so I can spare my sanity JDJSJ cause the art looks nice

Yes and no.
It's not like the type of toxic where it's glamorized and everything is okay in the end (Mostly seen with very toxic dominant Seme's and dumb af Uke's who just accept the bare minimum of affection and think of it as love or a term of endearment, aka Jinx).
This one the type of toxic that the characters have issues going on in their lives and rely on each other for ulterior motives, end up falling in love but it's too complicated to reciprocate the other's feelings.
It is still toxic, there is a lot of miscommunication, but I think the characters have a bit more development and depth compared to other manhwas.
If you're still interested in reading, the story has:
- Interesting plot (tho its the poor relying on rich common story)
- Good Smut
- Great art
- A lot of yearning (mostly on the 2nd season)

From the top of my head I can't really think of some with a similar vibe to this one. Tho on my profile I have some lists with my 5 and 4 reads (they aren't well organized, so a small heads up).
But to give you some recommendations here, my comfort read is "Sugar Dog Life", a very short yet cute story with enough character depth to make you get attached to them in a short time.
A longer Yaoi Manga that I really enjoyed was "Barbarities", which is set on an era where Counts and Lords were a thing. It's very story driven and a slow burn romance. I was so invested in the story that I read it all in a day.
But if you're more into Manhwa's, then "Exclusive No-Love Zone" is another one I recommend. It is an omega verse, but it's one of the very few that I actually like, since there is consent and an actual good story going on. The main couple is a Beta x Alpha, but the Beta isn't really interested in romance meanwhile the Alpha is pining for him 24/7. It has a lot of yearning coming from the Alpha, which I enjoyed (Since I like when the top falls head over heels first)
I hope this helps, and sorry if I didn't quite go into a lot of detail since I haven't read some of these in a while (and I digest Yaoi daily like a mad man)

It's true that Jinx's Seme is a toxic pos but what you said about Jinx's uke isn't accurate. He's not a stupid character and he's not willingly "accepting" being mistreated and mistaking it for something else. He's trapped in a financial arrangement/deal with the Seme which is why he is forced to put up with it.

Yes I'm aware of his situation. Even tho he is trapped in a financial arrangement, you can see that in recent chapters he is catching feelings for the seme, without the seme showing any interest back (He still treats the uke like shit, even tho he's possessive af). The uke thinking that the seme is being nice for helping him with his grandma and being "understanding" is dumb. Trusting the Seme and what he says, is dumb since he has shown time and time that he doesn't give a shit about the uke. At least for me that classifies him as stupid, tho he is a victim in every aspect, but it's a manhwa and the author just wants to romanticize an extremely toxic relationship where the uke is completely taken advantage of.

Bro's developing stockholm syndrome (our main character lol)
The blonde guy is also low key manipulative but at least he treats the main character well
I really hate how awful Jaekyung is istg

Heesung appears to be love bombing him. Heesung is manipulative and probably a red flag or what ever is before a red flag. Orange?
https://betterfamilytherapy.com/blog/toxic-romantic-relationships-am-i-in-one?format=ampâ¨â¨Maryland therapists say you may be in a toxic relationship if you experience these.â¨1.) Love Bombing- The beginningâ¨â¨This âperfect partnerâ individual may participate in what is called âLove Bombing.â This can consist of showing excessive attention, showering someone with compliments, and/or excessive gift giving.â¨So what is the point of love bombing early on the relationship? Often individuals who participate in love bombing understand that this can potentially âtrapâ someone into the relationship. It may seem that the relationship is all butterflies and rainbows in the beginning, but eventually there is a point where the love bombing stops and you see the person for who they actually are.â¨â¨What is dangerous about love bombing, is that some people may be more likely to stay in the relationship even if things get bad because they want the âold partnerâ back. Unfortunately, the love bomber was never the partnerâs authentic self.â¨â¨ââ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/love-bombing/â¨What Is Love Bombing?â¨This form of psychological and emotional abuse is often disguised as excessive flatteryâ¨â¨âInitially, you might feel safe, secure and swept off your feet because grand gestures are a self-esteem boost and make you feel important and desired,â says psychologist Alaina Tiani, PhD. âBut the love bomberâs ultimate goal is not just to seek love, but to gain control over someone else. Over time, those grand gestures are an effort to manipulate you and make you feel indebted to and dependent on them.â
Love bombing is an abuse tactic used to lure or keep someone in a relationship. â⨠https://www.choosingtherapy.com/love-bombing/â¨Love bombing is an abuse tactic used to LURE someone into a relationship. They donât have to be in a relationship.

Also, this isnât Stockholm Syndrome.
As we know, Stockholm Syndrome is a coping mechanism to a captive or abusive situation. People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time. This condition applies to situations including child abuse, coach-athlete abuse, relationship abuse and sex trafficking
This isnât the right type of relationship abuse and if you look at psychological causes, signs and symptoms this story doesnât fit.
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/stockholm-syndrome/#:~:text=Some%20of%20the%20more%20common,documented%20in%20the%20research%20include%3A&text=Feeling%20closely%20bonded%20or%20attached,of%20the%20captor%20or%20abuser
It gives you 5 Examples of Stockholm Syndrome. None are close. 4 is the Stockholm syndrome abusive relationship. The abuse that causes Stockholm Syndrome isnât there and there many elements that doesnât allow to develop to Stockholm syndrome.
The original Beauty and the beast is Stockholm Syndrome but the Disneyâs version isnât. https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1460&context=criterion#:~:text=The%20original%20Beauty%20of%20Beauty,syndrome%20have%20all%20but%20vanished.
Stop referring to this as Stockholm syndrome. It is not.

If you read my reply and that article, you wouldnât open with âsomething that can be diagnosed.â If you did read you would know it doesnât matter if it was. It is was diagnosable, it will never be Stockholm Syndrome.
It is closer to battered person syndrome but it doesnât fit.
We are researching trauma bonding but it may not fit either.
I read the story as it. I donât think you have an accurate interpretation.
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/320747#what-is-it
What types of abuse can it involve?
Sexual abuse: This includes rape, unwanted sexual contact, and verbal sexual harassment.
There is no rape in jinx. If you see rape with Jaekyung and Dan that is your pov by not seeing all the details of the story and the facts.
Dan consented and agreed to this. It is unwanted 98% by thoughts but you have to ask yourself is it really? You are missing many things by hating this story or hating Jaekyung. Their first time is as SA and abusive not rape.
I donât recall any verbal sexual harassment.
Stalking: This involves a person using threatening tactics to cause a person to feel fear and concern for their safety.
There is nothing of this.
Physical abuse: This includes slapping, pushing, burning, and the use of a knife, gun, or other weapon to cause bodily harm.
He has not slapped him or burned him. He has not used a weapon for bodily harm. He has pushed his head down in the pillow and slammed him on a bed. He covered his mouth.
Psychological aggression: Examples include name-calling, humiliation, or coercive control, which means behaving in a way that aims to control a person.
In their first time. He did coercion him but told him leave. His âcoercionâ later comes off as a 14 year old boy. It isnât really controlling and it is what Dan signed up for. I donât think most of the story supports this.
The symptoms donât even describe Dan. Jaekyung is aggressive but he is not that aggressive with Dan. Jaekyung is toxic but he isnât has toxic as you are trying to make him out to be.
Read to understand why Stockholm syndrome and battered person syndrome instead of imposing your opinion. I donât think trauma bonding even fits. Why canât you read what you like instead of making this more negative than what it is. Are you going to claim incest next?
We canât say this Trauma bonding ⌠yet but it is not that abusive relationship.
It is abusive but not how you want it to be.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/emotional-sobriety/202109/what-is-trauma-bonding
Trauma-bonding lives in the nervous system. The brain makes associations between âloveâ and abuse or neglect.
Trauma-bonding is a hormonal attachment created by repeated abuse, sprinkled with being âsavedâ every now and then.
Trauma-bonding in adulthood can stem from childhood trauma.
https://www.salon.com/2023/06/14/youre-misusing-the-term-trauma-bonded/
Trauma bonding is what happens when a person has been in an abusive relationship and they feel the need to go back to the relationship, even though they've been highly abused," Dr. Joy Berkheimer, a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) told Salon. "They're in this cycle of the person pretty much professing their love and having them come back, even though they've been mistreated, even though they've been treated poorly."
Jaekyung hasnât done the abusive behavior you want to claim this and what he did was at the beginning, which could you be misunderstanding his abusive behavior. It is SA. Yes. It is abusive. Yes. These terms you are using donât fit.
I'm so concerned but the authors other work was wholesome and healthy so hopefully this turns out the same way
Nah I wasn't war and violence