
I cringe whenever they bring up her gender and someone continues to call her a boy. Like her father, for instance. Its so annoying. Why doesnt she just insist? She clearly prefers she/her, yet its also treated as just a joke.

Well according to our teacher when we were doing a reflection paper, and there's no identity of the mc whether it's a he or she, so our teacher said that if there's no gender revealed or just sexless
It still is called a "he" since from like the bible, the man was the first to be alive.
Idk really get it but I'm just gonna share it anyway

I dont want you to misinformed on gender theory bc it affects real people, so let me explain! Sex and gender are two different things. Sex refers to a biological marker (XX and XY chromosomes), male/ female. Gender is a social construct, it is a part of your identity and how you perceive yourself. If we want to go off of our MC here, Haein is technically sexless, but she grew up female, feels female, likes to look feminine, and likes to be referred to as a female. She is uncomfortable with her sexless body, which is why she used magic to alter her appearance to be female. She doesnt loke being called a boy or "son", and the only reason she is, is bc her bullheaded father said he wanted a son.
For an example more grounded in reality, hermaphrodites are born with both male and female sexual organs/ chromosomal makeups. So, what do we call them? He? She? They? (Certainly not "it" pls dont refer to real people as "it", thays so rude). Well, bc gender identity is based on each individual person, that person who is a hermaphrodite will determine what pronouns they wish to use. What feels right to them. Unfortunately in the case of many hermaphrodites, after they are born, they don't get to decide and doctors choose for them, even performing surgery to make them "normal" and conform to a sex. Interesting case studies about people such as this, not knowing the were born a hermaphrodite bc of a sex change at birth, whose gender identity does not align with the sex they were decided on.
Okay, that was long, but i hope it was informative.
Short answer, Haein refers to herself as a girl and everyone else should too.
? Does creamsoda already know him? A stalker perhaps? Old friend? Infatuation? Did he put a tracker on him or smthn?
No, he just remembers him from the first encounter I'd say.
It gave off the vibes that he might have had interest in him or maybe learned to dislike him at that meeting and hence remembered (he had a strange reaction when the MC mentioned that he likes Creamsoda-san's haircolour).
yeah, but he also somehow knows where he is currently? So im assuming he's a stalker
Not really. They both met up due to being in the same are due to college or whatever, so naturally they both can cross paths when they roam the city parts.
It wasn't hinted that he KNEW where the MC was, it seemed more like a typical coincidence than stalker behavior (which authors usually display differently).
No He literally does know, he found him tied up and I figured he's the one who caused the guy to leave
i am also curious.