The main issue isn’t just that Jaekyung is changing, it’s that I don’t feel it. I think this is where the story lost its emotional balance. Readers went through everything Kim Dan suffered, and that pain was shown in brutal, intimate detail. We needed to see Jaekyung truly break, regret, and suffer too. His redemption should’ve matched the weight of the pain he caused. Right now, it feels like emotional justice is missing.
Jaekyung’s side feels muted in comparison. The author seems to be focusing on internal change, Jaekyung realizing he can’t control or fix things through force anymore. It’s a different kind of redemption arc, maybe more realistic than the classic “begging for forgiveness” trope. Instead of huge angsty breakdowns, we’re seeing him try to be gentle, patient, and actually think before acting, which is huge for someone like him. Maybe this slow, awkward softness is his version of punishment. It’s painful in a quieter way, not loud pain, but the “realizing you’re in love and can’t undo what you did” kind of pain.
But the problem is that she broke her own narrative continuity. The emotional tension from the early chapters is missing; it used to hit harder. For redemption to feel deserved, the audience needs to witness that emotional punishment. Without it, the change feels like an unfortunate narrative shortcut, like we’re being asked to forgive before we’ve seen him actually atone.
Tbh the initial intensity of JK suffering felt a little out of character for me as a person who lives with people with the same kind of temperament. It just doesn't line with how they work irl really but I do understand what you mean, the people yearn for visible misery and suffering from him but he is just not that type of person really
Agreed, im delusional in thinking hes maturing rn but the second he ACTUALLY tried to pursue (or confess) to Dan hes gonna get another awakening, but its gonna hit different (more painful for him) coz he'll realize that even changed his past is still there and he'll have to watch Dan heal 1st (which will add to he's pain, knowing he caused said pain)
BUT HONESTLY, based on this chapter I wouldn't be surprised if Dan gives in easily OR worse, goes through a "im not good enough for him" phase (tho if it is that route, that can be painful for JK too, but I wouldn't prefer it since i just want the best for Dan.... and for JK to suffer for a while haha)
That’s a really interesting take, and I get where you’re coming from. You’re right Jaekyung’s personality type wouldn’t express suffering in a dramatic, visible way. His restraint and emotional detachment are very in character.
But I think what many readers (myself included) feel isn’t that we need him to act out his pain, but that the story itself isn’t making us feel it. Realism is one thing, but emotional storytelling is another, and the balance between the two seems off right now.
I don't think you're delusional cuz in the end progress is progress even if it's tiny. I super agree with your theory on jk in the first half.
To be fair, I just wished Dan had one or two cunning bone in his body, he really has the means to it but doesn't realize it or doesn't want to???( in my country we would say Dan could lead him by the beak)but I guess he isn't like that lol
Progress is progress, no matter how small, I just hope I feel that progress by the end. And omg yes, Dan could totally have Jaekyung wrapped around his finger if he wanted, the man would crumble lol. But he’s too pure for that. He’s gentle even when he’s the one who could finally take control, and that’s what makes him both frustrating and endearing.
I get you. So far, there hasn't been an official confession so he hasn't experienced rejection coupled with the newly found enlightenment from his reflection yet. Thus, we've yet to witness explicit emotional pain from his side. I'm assuming right now, we're seeing the process of him realising more of his feelings for Dan and just being aware. Literally, just being more self-aware, which is only step 1.
I feel like we have yet to see him actually understand what he made Dan feel. I think there would be balance if he experience it himself. There's this lack of empathy for me. Jaekyung doesn't seem like a very emotionally intelligent character so I don't know how he is going to empathise and feel guilt that is proportionate to the impact of his actions without experiencing it himself. Right now, it just seems like he knows he is wrong but he doesn't quite fully realise the magnitude of it.
And Dan is still very much within his reach so even though he now knows he can't be without Dan, he hasn't experienced helplessness and loss. He is still very much in control, doing whatever to convince Dan to be around, partaking in Dan's physical recovery. It comes down to whether Dan will actually reject and separate from him. It's unlikely Dan would reject Jaekyung the exact same way he did. I suppose it's building up to that redemption arc by first going through a self-discovery arc or whatever this is. I hope this is only the start of Jaekyung's change and Dan's as well since I feel like Dan is still blaming himself for a lot of things and it would be nice to see that moment of Dan standing up for himself and make that break. Maybe his sleepwalking will go away then.
im hoping were gonna get that true “redemption” when dans contract ends a bit more or maybe ALL the redemption that minhwa was going for was the alcoholism and regret we saw at the beginning of this season (?) I cant tell where shes going for with this. But for sure jaekyung is gonna suffer later also with the guy from his childhood, totally forgot his name.
You explained it perfectly. I think you’re right — this is probably just the first step for him. He’s realizing things, but only when Jaekyung truly loses Dan, seeing him with someone who treats him kindly and gives him the care he deserves, will he understand the real weight of what he did. That kind of pain would finally put him in the same emotional place of vulnerability Dan once was and only then would his redemption feel balanced and deserved.
Exactly, There are still so many loose threads in the story, I really hope Mingwa ties them all together by the end. The childhood friend arc especially needs proper closure; it feels like there’s something important there that could deepen Jaekyung’s character and make his redemption more meaningful.
This manhwa really reminded me of Hosik’s Story. The characters share both visual and personality similarities, but I think A Well-Known Love Affair handles its tone much better. The uke’s clumsy humor feels natural and fits the romantic atmosphere, while Hosik’s Story presents a weaker uke who mostly complains during intimate moments with a husband that’s difficult to sympathize with even at the end.
While reading, I couldn’t help but imagine how much better Hosik’s Story’s plot would have been with these two characters.
Honestly, I’d love to see this author try an omegaverse someday, her writing style would fit that perfectly.
Honestly, I thought Gabriel’s flirting would go further. I was expecting him to be a real rival for Kim Dan’s affection. The story really needs some tension there, author pls!! Jaegueng should feel genuinely threatened at least once! Watching Kim Dan William kiss someone else would definitely shake things up. Muahaha!
Yeah, true, but let’s be real. The actor arc did serve that purpose, but honestly, it didn’t really do it justice, it felt pretty weak. Gabriel comes off more like comic relief than a real rival. Still, him hitting on JJK would definitely shake things up. The real focus, though, should be making Jaegueng actually lose it with real jealousy, that would give us the chills we need for the intense chase arc the author promised. If Gabriel ends up being just that, a watered-down copy of Hensung, then the story really missed a big opportunity there.
And would you look at that, Jaegueng actually swapped outfits with Danny in the last panel! JK’s rocking the gray hoodie, and Dan’s back in that team black jacket lol I don’t think Dan’s gonna wear those fancy clothes he got until they sort things out, but I do wanna see him all dressed up, looking stunning and turning heads giving JK a taste of jealousy he totally deserves ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ






So like… he looks like his mom and suddenly that’s enough to wipe away the trauma? She literally abandoned Hyesung in a store with an abusive father she ran from herself, and now everyone’s acting like “well, she gave birth to him so let it go”??? I feel so bad for Hyesung this is such a huge betrayal from both the husband AND the kid. And he’s supposed to forgive all that with one apology?? Be serious.
it feels like i’m watching those kdramas where the MC forgives all the fuckedup sht their family/parents did to them and then they hug it out type sht. i hope he never forgives her. or at least just wants nothing to do with her like he’s been doing. like i kinda get byul but the HUSBAND??? like what dude that’s ur husband/mother of ur children how could u go behind his back like that.
I understand u