
Me and my boyfriend had a fight and he dumped me. but a week ago he came back to me and we got back together. He changed a lot after our fight and he is really serious. he doesn't give much attention to me anymore. so my friend decided to give him a message and he got offended and he said that he was sorry that he couldn't amend. he said weird things and he said that I'm just like everyone else. so we broke up and now hes acting depressed. I did wrong I know but when we were together after our fight he kept offending me and hurting me he also said " you look like a lesbian when you hang out with your friends". my friend says that I did the right thing but I don't know. we broke up today and I feel depressed asf I don't know why I'm commenting this here but I just found my ex's attitude kinda similar to kei but he wasn't as sweet. he doesn't interact with people. </3

Depression is not other peoples fault. So it is not yours. He may be having problems and he has to deal with them. But he was hurting you too, and taking it on you. So unfortunately you cannot be his support for you will fall in that depression with him. I know is hard but you did the right thing. I hope you feel better.

Hm "you look like a lesbian when with friends"... I'd say either that means he wants to be more *physically* lovey dovey with you, is jealous of the attention you give others and is a total ass in his way of expressing it, or he's insure about his own sexuality himself... I'd say, try asking him if it's the first one (him wanting more physical closeness with you and being a total ass in his way of asking), but if it's not that one, start suspecting the second...

Break ups suck, but the way he was treating you was not right. He's got a problem, but it is not okay for him to take it out on you -- that's an abusive tendency and those can get worse if you give into him. Breaking up was the right call. Don't worry about him just take care of yourself. Make sure to hang out with your friends and do fun things you enjoy too. It will take time to get over him, but you deserve someone who will treat you properly and I'm sure you will find that person someday. Oh, and reaching out for help or to talk things out is never wrong, so don't fret about the comment. Hope you feel better soon <3
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