Leavemealone like the answer
I honestly think it has something to do with the obsession of giving the bottom, or MC, no personality or agency that would allow them to contribute something to the plot. I guess it might be because the MC in a romance is usually some form of self insert but it does get annoying.
Leavemealone created a topic of Kill the Villainess

I'm kinda done in done with her done with everyone. Just let her die y'all end it the way she wants this is getting messy, I'd keep Anakin.

Leavemealone created a topic of Bungou Stray Dogs

Y'ALL ARE DESTINED TO WHAT!???? GIMME THE ANSWER FIRST AND THEN DIE MAN AHHHHHHHHHH

Omg

I just got to know Alicia and Lyod end up together and have kids omg I'm probably the happiest person rn but atst I feel I'm gonna miss the bromance between my kids (Habiel and Lyod)

that hold I need that in my book