I honestly think it has something to do with the obsession of giving the bottom, or MC, no personality or agency that would allow them to contribute something to the plot. I guess it might be because the MC in a romance is usually some form of self insert but it does get annoying.
I'm kinda done in done with her done with everyone. Just let her die y'all end it the way she wants this is getting messy, I'd keep Anakin.
I just got to know Alicia and Lyod end up together and have kids omg I'm probably the happiest person rn but atst I feel I'm gonna miss the bromance between my kids (Habiel and Lyod)
that hold I need that in my book