Just ask her gently like "babe can I ask you something " and ask her something similar but not directly like are there any fetishes do you have or something
ofc its gonna take a while to adapt to the art style, but we need show our appreciation to the writer and imagine finding out the person who draws your art also draws cp! Im pleased the writer dissociated with the Arter.
Now this is what I mean by older seme! (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ