
What is the point of shounen Ai
I just don't get it it's not friendship he said he liked him in a romantic Way why isn't it yaoi I get it if it was a strong friendship a really deep one without saying it in a romantic way as in confessing it would be shounen Ai but here he literally told him that it's such a waste

I hate when someone shows interest then when u become conscious of them they back off fucking piss me off

Well, I was that kind of person... Sorry about that. I felt like to share something. If you want to know my reason for that, it's because I had best friend (of opposite sex). We're getting along pretty good, and I wasn't a romantic teenager. So when he confessed, I turned him down because I like our relationship as best friend. But after that, he just cut off all our relationship and said he can't become my friends anymore. And I got really mad for that. I felt like I got betrayed by my best friend.
Since then I really hate confession. I like friends and get along with them fast. But whenever someone gives sign of closing up, I tried to meet them less. I hate person like him so much. The one who think confession is like jumping from a cliff. It's either you succeed or you die. There's always option to not jump at all, and we can still be friends even if I know he likes me. But he didn't, he just gave up and walked away.
Sorry for long rant, I need something to distract me.

There is no need to be sorry
This is another subject it's ok not to want someone you don't have to accept them because they like u if u don't.
I'm talking about ppl who act like they like you and when you notice them they back off like they have done nothing or cut it off completely
But a side note try to make the opposite understand that u think of them as friends only it's harsh to back off on someone and that dude I understand him as well he liked you and can't go back to being friends if he stayed he would suffer so don't hate him and u did nothing wrong (●'◡'●)ノ

no, thats not what im talking about because u werent romantically interested in him. but the guy i mentioned earlier deadass told my best friend he was in love with me and asked her to help him get close with me. he even introduced me to his mother in a way that might have suggested i was his gf ... thats y i was so disappointed for him raising my expectations just to reject me.

idk man but both of you were in the wrong and right. You should have asked him specifically his reason. If it's a good reason and you actually liked him, you could have understood. If it was a terrible reason (literally just waiting until he's a senior because he feels like it), then he ain't worth it. Just my two cents. :D

oh i wasnt assuming that he was waiting to be a senior. he told me to my face "im waiting until im a senior." idk, maybe we have a cultural difference. where i live, no man will reject u outright, they will always say it in a sugar coated way like "im not looking for a gf just yet" or "i dont like taking phone calls so dont call me." anyways, it was a rejection.

Can I be completely honest with you? I am suffering from low self-esteem, i always think that i am not worth to be loved after being told by so many dates that I am not how they expected or their ex was better. My parents constantly tell me that I am a failure and I will never reach anything in life (something similar to Oh Kamin's relationship with his Grandma). It's really hard to accept someone's affection or love after going through pain, bullying caused by people closest to you. I hope this magha will actually going to show how Oh Kamin (black haired guy) are going to slowly accept Choi Kanggo's (ginger) affection and it will slowly turn in to love. I am still struggling with accepting affection and love from others. I always were told that nobody will want me but slowly I am learning that I am worthy of love, that i am wanted and my rescue cats actually are helping me a lot to learn that (^.^)
Sorry for long post. It's really complicated to explain.
Overload
Man tho I read smut with a stone face lmao
Bruhhhh I wanna see them do it shounen Ai isn't my cup of tea but I never fuckin learn ugh