This hits me hard ╥﹏╥
I was bullied on my late grade school days and second year of highschool.
When I transferred school on my third year, I started changing myself and teasing people (but didn't come to the point of bullying)
It felt good at some point, but at the end of the day I always found my old bullied self in the corner. Still crying and in pain.
I want to hug the old version of me and tell her it will be okay (cuz I sometimes hurt myself way back)
I stopped teasing and just do it with my closest friends.
I just wanna tell people to never bully someone.
They may heal, but the scars will remain forever.
As someone who was horribly bullied and still is, I can't fucking believe that after experiencing how shitty it is you did it to other people. Shame on you (︶︿︶)＝凸
idk what to say
Thank you for sharing. You're strong and awesome.
You do realize that is the most common response to bullying? It’s why so often people say bullying is learned from from. Or the saying the oppressed are the best oppressors. It doesn’t excuse the toxic behavior but it’s actually a very rational way of dealing with feeling insecure. To redirect that feelings towards another.
Learned from home***
She didn't behave well but recognized it. Insulting her isn't the best anwser though. Hate brings only more hate (and this person has nothing to do with your bullying). Though I hope you'll find a way to keep yourself safe and be happy. Don't hesitate to speak and ask help.
You're not behaving much better you know. Op at least recognises they were wrong
Well, I have never bullied anybody. And of course, I know that becoming a bully is sometimes a response to one's insecurities and own experiences as a victim of bullying. However, bullying is something serious. And people who suffer it know it. You can led someone to hurt themselves, or even commit suicide. It is not a "game". And the enduring effects that it has in a person should be accounted. So yeah, I am behaving better
Sadly, they recognize the scars and pain that bullying causes in other people for the rest of their lives, and that is why I don't get how could they do it to someone else. I think it is quite heartless. I am not saint, but I find quite disturbing that these person is seeking attention here. Bullying can led other people to hurt themselves or even commit suicide. It is no joke. So I think that, no matter what, it is not justified. It is a crime.
I teased them but didn't bully them. I inow how it feels so I didn't have the courage to do it. You know the difference between teasing and bullying right? Sadly, just so you know, I didn't make anybody's life a living hell like this on the story. Its sad how you judge me and accuse me when you don't even know me. And I'm not seeking attention, I just shared my experience. I hope you get better.
I was 8-12 on those days. I know my age that time can't justify how I gradually changed my behavior in a new environment when I transferred on my 3rd year.
When I was being bullied, they used to lock me on the comfort room (kinda cliche thinking about it)
They are changing the names on the computer's apps into derogatory words and all of my classmates will tell the teacher that I did it, my teacher didn't helped me as well, instead she embarassed me in front of the class and force me to admit it.
My classmates would punch the wooden door of our classroom until it torned and point me out as the one who did it.
I even had my father go to the school to see the wrecked door and the teacher have him pay for it.
Alot of things.
Tying my long curls on my bag handle, stealing my books, embarass me and making up stories about me.
I hope you realized how crappy those days are for me, I come to hurt myself, pull my hair, scratch my body with sharp objects.
Thinking about it after transferring, I apologize that teasing my new classmates to feel better is the only thing a 12 year old girl can do.
I am so sorry its the only way I can do to make my 12 year old self forget that I used to be my classmate's trash and slave.
I am so sorry that I had to change drastically and show to everyone that they can't do those things to me again.
I am so sorry that I lead a life that is not suitable for you to accept.
I felt so sorry for me as well all those times but you know what, I didn't ask for all of those things to happen. And I am all against bullying. I'm 28 now, and I think I grew up after what happened and always looking at the brightside of life. I want to continue to be happy. I hope you do too. Thanks a lot! :)
The fact that you phrased it like "I did not have the courage to do it" amazes me...since when bullying someone is "courage"? Again, it is sad to hear you had a similar experience to mine. But I am sorry, I cannot relate to you teasing other people. I live in hell, but I would never hurt others. I understand that each have their own circumstances. But it does not change the fact that somewhere else there is someone who has the same scars as you because of what you did.
Nope. I'm pretty sure I didn't go to that extent so I hope you stop imagining things which I didn't do.
You cannot know what other people's might feel or who they might react. Not everybody can be as strong as you were
I cannot know, then how do you know? You psychic or somethin'? All of them became my friends just to set the record straight and for you to stop. This is how bullies do, they don't want to stop even if you ask them to do so. You're turning into something you hate you know so please stop it.
I do understand it's difficult to see, but again being impolite towards a person you don't even know isn't the answer :/ It can turn of what you have experienced...
You seem to have a lot of anger. Speaking can release a part of it, so don't hesitate (in respect of eo ofc).
You're the heroine of your story, stay strong!
That is my point, nobody can know. So it is not possible to affirm they were fine with it. It is good to know that apparently you made up with all of them in the end. I was not bullying you, nor I am a bully. There is a difference between stating one's opinion and abuse someone. Sorry if you felt attacked. I was just very surprised by your story, thats all
I have no anger towards someone I don't even know, to be sincere ^^º I am not that immature. And I did not mean to be impolite, I was just quite shocked with who the person who made the comment phrased his story.
Well, you see I really had a terrible changed in my behavior when I transferred school and as I said in my story, I teased a lot of people or my classmates on my new school. Ofcourse a lot of them really disliked it. We had an open forum and a lot of my classmates open up on how they disliked how I teased them. Then I cried in the middle of the class and told them my story. Then we hugged and became okay, I said sorry to my cladsmates and mellowed my behavior. I was not the same after. I can say, it's a short time inaappropriate behavior and I learned from it. It's really sad thinking about it but its a lesson I learned that someone can still understand and accept you. I hope you're not triggered anymore. I became a really good adult now you know.
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I regret holding this off for a couple of weeks.
The feels on their backstories.
The sex, the humor and the kinks! Ugh!!! So satisfied
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Okay Harada, don't get all psycho and make some super twisted plot twist between these two budding love birds for a while please?
I am all anxious every chapter when you will drop some bomb. Lol
lol did you just ask Harada to NOT be psycho? Like good luck with that my dude
I did say "for awhile" yeah?
YES the entire time I was like "is this really Harada? IS THIS REALLY HARADAAAA?"
All my concern goes to the alpha ex.
I'm shookt he was with an alpha. A whole new world so kinda confusing. I need more backstory (⊙…⊙ )
Okay, where's Chihiro(playboy) x Ogata(manager) story???
We need it!
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