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But Hyera is the stereotypical pink hair b*tch lmao, the only difference is that the base for her trope has more data.

Every story has a sterotypical character. Her being a mean girl stereotype WASNT the point of my comment????

The point was her being more developed character wise from a WRITERS standpoint than the other characters.. this is exactly why I titled this “might get downvoted” because of a clear misinterpretation on your part.

“Has more data” has more depth*** that was the point of my entire comment brother.

Correcting more data to more depth made me realize I almost started to argue with a rock

Maybe you’re the rock since it takes a while for you to comprehend a relatively easy way explanation. You used “data” while I’m describing the DEPTH a character has. You can keep going back and forth over yourself clearly misinterpreting something and overall replying to me for absolutely no reason, or you can open your mind to comprehend something that’s easy to understand.

Maybe I need to explain it so you can actually understand what I was saying, if you even have the capacity to read this much.

Stereotypical characters are fine but the issue is when they’re poorly written or under written. I’m a writer myself. Minji is the perfect example of what I’m talking about. She’s a trope you see in almost every other yuri. It’s the same repeated thing and her character isn’t given an actual personality other than the fact that she’s an emotional, cutesy bottom. That’s it. That’s the character. Yuna isn’t given a personality other than she’s lesbian, jealous and hot. That’s it. That’s the character.

It FEELS underdeveloped. And everyone that reads this writer unfortunately knows she needs an author that can properly write characters.

Whereas Hyera actually got a bit of depth to her character. We see her personality and emotions shift and vary so many times in BTD and it feels authentic. Hyera got the time to have some actual good character development that makes her work as an antagonist, whereas Minji and Yuna’s arch felt rushed and overall forced. All of the piles of drama also feel forced.

Hopefully you can understand the fact that I’m not directly talking about the characters themselves I’m talking about the way this was written. This is so easy to comprehend and I don’t think I should’ve had to give an essay on it either.

i get what you mean, bc literally any character, actually even any person could be simply categorized as some sort of stereotype but especially in books you have to add more depth and nuance and characterization to differentiate them, and i think hyera was that tbh

I think aug 22??

KYOU-Nim is still recovering from surgery, but I think they are working on getting season 3 out ASAP since this manhwa is so popular. I just hope they don't overwork themselves

Oh wow I didn’t know bros been in surgery but thanks for the reply

Realistically this is not too uncommon in Asian culture or households, I try not to generalize whole Asian cultures. But there’s many trauma
Bonds formed and children will still be attached to their parents no matter their age. He also hasn’t had any closure so he will want that.

I don't think he remembers that part. I think he just remembered talking to his dad, and then he just woke up out of nowhere. So I think he is thinking he didn't get across what he wanted to say and feels he has to do so before he will allow himself to go back to ml

Anytime I think hes finally about to put his foot down with his father he does a complete 180. Of course breaking trauma bonds isn’t easy… but I wish he would just stand up

Maybe not, maybe he does. I hope he doesn’t remember that part though because if he does remember but still willingly chased after him it’s kinda like.. meh.

I took the fact that he didn't seem to know why was going on, and him actually not knowing where his dad was and looking for him as though he should be there is a pretty good indication that he lost that but of his memory.
1. Pretty much anyone who gets hit on the head and then wakes up alone would know pretty instinctively that the other person must have done it and that if they're not there they ran away.
2. If he had remembered that his dad had tried to kill him, or rather anyone in his shoes, would likely take a few minutes to emotionally quarrel with the fact that their own parent just hit them over the head with a bottle and instead of calling an ambulance, they ran away.

Regardless though, this was a pretty shit chapter all around. Nothing happened except the possible death of one or both of them, potential temporary or permanent harm, and most definitely a changed relationship. The dad was always trash, but this is the first time he ever tried to kill family members.

Standing up is the issue haha. Hopefully Woo relies on Seo and they figure things out

Because some people still have pride, especially when in front of someone they care about. When you're poor, sometimes all you have left is your self respect. Woo-won wants to be an equal partner, not a kept pet, and to be honest Seo-An treats him that way a lot of the time. Case in point, telling him to care about no one else other than him and assuming he'd move with him without considering the fact that Woo-won has people he cares about in South Korea and his own desires.

I mean yeah, but don’t call people who accept money as losing their pride please. Also let’s not forget seo an (though not in the right whatsoever) is trying to show his love and the way he thinks it should be is solving his boyfriends issues. Yes he should have asked for opinion obviously, but maybe he thinks he is helping him out? I don’t think he thinks of him as a pet, but rather doesn’t know how to express affection other than solving their problems they didn’t even asked to be solved. The part where he assumes he will go with him is messed up, but I think comes from a place of love and caring (but is also selfish don’t get me wrong). AGAIN before u come at me, I do think seoan is in the wrong, but y’all are trying to make him way more of a villain than he is, rather than a flawed person.

I am so sorry you had to go through all that. As a person who grew up in a pretty well off household, Ik I am unable to think the same way as you.
Despite that, I still agree with you. A person who has trouble making ends meet wouldn’t really be like this, pride doesn’t feed you, doesn’t provide you shelter nor does it give respect tbh. A prideful person with any ability to swallow his pride when necessary is just a fool.
But I am sure this isn’t the case for every person tho. Maybe woo won has never experienced the breaking point. unlike you who had to suffer to the point of being unable to eat or have cloths to wear, he had his mother. Sure mental and physical damage was there, but he had someone who he could lean on; both his mom and aunt.

No, but it feels like he is treating him like one when he said to him: “I am the one who decides”.
That’s just a red flag.

Yeah fair…but I also don’t think it’s a red flag that can’t be changed ya know? Like it’s not as extreme as these other RED AND BLACK FLAGS lol. If ya get what I’m sayin

My point is it’s a red flag, that’s all. But it can definitely be changed if he tries to change, so far he’s just been selfish and arrogant, although he has good intentions, he’s doing it in the wrong way and hurting his partner.

Both are sort of hurting each other but Seo-An more right now. It’s frustrating but we’ll see what happens.

First I want to say thanks for talking to me. So far as the situation with my dad, it’s gotten much better now that I’m older. I don’t let him touch me or even talk bad about me, I’ve learned how to stand up for myself and I’ve told him I would call the cops on him if he ever tries to hurt me again. And once Im 18, I told him he’d never see me again. I’ve definitely had people to lean on IE my mom, and my aunt as well. There was even a point to which I had to move in with my grandparents bc of what my dad was doing to me, but idk. I take pride in myself 100%, but I also know who I am and what I’ve come from, enough to be humble enough to know I need help. I kind of just vented and got side tracked from the actual story, I’m sorry, but I hope Woowon can try to come around to accepting help.

While I see both sides? Like I said, Woowon communicating that he needs Seo-An’s financial help isn’t being less than him. As of right now, Woowon doesn’t even respect himself enough to stand up for himself when it comes to his father.

I know Seo-An has his own issues to work out, he has abandonment issues and that causes him to be controlling. But that wasn’t really the point of my comment. I’m saying, Woowon should’ve just asked for financial help from Seo-An.

If you were hungry and I told you I was going to the store to buy myself food, you’d just choose to stay hungry instead of asking me to get you something? That’s not being prideful nor humble. I’m sorry but that’s just stupid.

People say Woo doesn’t trust Seo-An but it ain’t that exactly, it’s more of insecurity and feeling like a burden especially when he’s lived his whole life relying on himself.

Ikr? And it's not just about the money at this point, just how to get rid and cut off from his father. Being in Woowon's shoes, admit you are weak against your father and seek help.

He knows he is weak, unfortunately this is a bit common across Asia countries where children feel the need to provide financial help to their parents so it’s really not easy to break that cycle.

Seo-An did what he felt like he had to do, but it wasnt right and this side of his personality is prob why his exes left him.

Hopefully things go well based off what I saw in raws,spoiler if you didn’t know:








it seems like Woo is standing up to his father. He got upset and left after the argument with Seo, and went to his father. He seems more upset at the father than Seo.

I agree. I’m way younger than woowon but I grew out of that “burden” phase very fast. I’m extremely self aware, so I stopped blaming myself and began blaming the person who was REALLY at fault aka my father. Which is what I hope he does. It’s just an unfortunate situation for Woo, and Seo-An, they’re both less than perfect but I’m sure they’ll understand eachother when everything is said and done.

I'm SEA'n so I am more than familiar with that family dynamics. That is why it is important that someone outside steps in.

Yes Woowon is standing up to his father and all of that is triggered by Seoan's meddling. It's not like Woowon hasn't ever but this time might have more conviction than all of the times he tried to just simply ignore him. Seoan's meddling made a difference.

Im aware his meddling made a difference, but I do hope he apologizes for doing it this way, Woo deserves an apology. This isn’t the first time Seo did something without his consent at first.

Can I just say u r like the most respectful commenter? Like even if we disagree u don’t do name calling or sound passive aggressive. When I give my opinion I get jumped LMAO. I like this comment section, all respectful ppl

Ohh haha thank you! I’m flattered .
You’re right, this comment section we are chatting on is really respectful and no dissing or nothing.

Lmao jelly art style the art at the end of season 2 is already very good and pretty, I kinda wish Evy didn't change it but oh well haha