...in this manga everyone seems kinda at fault... And ..not at fault
Reality really well portrayed
Yes, all the men who rape in this manga are at fault. No, the women who are raped, here, are not at fault. The fact that you come away with the feeling that both are not or are at fault is the exact same concept this story is trying to speak AGAINST. Because, yes, society blames women for men's as well as their own actions and all of the consequences therein. Which is gross. Thanks.
No. Thank you. For being one of the people who keep thinking that abuse only have one source, that aren't a cultural thing, that women can't do anything about that. It's not about blaming the victim, it's just about starting to think that women can be an active part in their life, stand up for theirself, fight the thought that only because your are a woman you should stay silent. Which is gross.
The protagonist think that being a man is where the fault lies, which is completely absurd, she is a person who is terrified and think she can't do anything except go where the abuse tell her to and do what he says, like she is just supposed to do so. She even blame herself for feeling pleasure and she internally mock her "friend" and the worst thing is that when the boy told her he was abused she told him it can't be because he is a man. Talking about gross.
But well, as I person that was abused for years I feel completely comfortable saying the first step is starting to think you're not only a victim, but you are a person with a say in your life and at some point (with exception) you can decide what happen to you











My parents did the same, my husband is very sick (not on wheelchair though) bad they couldn't accept him. I just went to live with him and 9 years later married him anyway. There were no parents at my wedding but well... I CHOOSE what makes me feel happy. If kawana's mother can't stand her daughter with a sick person I am sorry for her pain, but it's HER problem to solve. Parents should make step towards their children, not the other way aroung for god sake!!!
You are right. Parents should be more supportive. What annoys me in this manga is not her mother, is the fact that the heroine is so indecisive and still agrees with the parents. And I really admire you for choosing your own way
Yeah, unfortunately Kawana is not a good example for readers, in my opinion ( ̄へ ̄)
Like I said I can sorta understand the parents, (still, mine went TOO WAY OVERBOARD so..well), but I sure can't understand Kawana. Like someone here in the comments said..it's not like marring a boy you don't love is gonna make you happy .. And what's so good about a life that seems to have all in place, anyway..it's just an illusion. People get sick everytime, your sweet half can cheat and lie, your children can born with disease or become a criminal and so on.. Having a spinal injury it's a tragedy, can't be a fault
Yes you are so true.i haven't after first chapters but I looked comment and I am agree with you. My cousin born with down sendrom. My family support them. They know it but they want to choose give her a life. Her mother was suffer a lot from other people. Even her mother family didn't want baby after her born because of disease... they forgot that we don't know why will happen in future . Maybe so healthy baby will be sick... or your love will be disable... it will be so hard but God help us... I hope nobody meet that kind of situation...
i strongly agree with you! i hope you and your husband will stay strong no matter what. :)