Ryem's activites

"Until now...he and I were just regular friends." Mai and Yuta are the best of gaming buddies, their...

OH MY GOD! He's putting things together!!
And Sojeong messing with Yoomin's relationship like that is out of hand. She's so fucking manipulative, it's exhausting. I'm glad he ended their relationship for good.

He's mentally unwell. That's the only reason you'd enjoy self-harm like that. Some forms of pain actually do bring dopamine if you do it the right way, and the brain DOES stop producing if you keep doing it lightly. As someone who used to self-harm, I know this very well.
Him participating in this form of play is self-harm. He is depressed, and seeking a high. A high that can only be achieved by being reckless and feeling in danger. That's exactly what he's looking for.
I assume he'd actually be into pre-meditated kidnapping and CNC.
I assume that he's into these things because he was in a NC situation before. People who have been through NC situations, especially as a child, get addicted to those situations because that's what they know. It feels familiar to be taken advantage of, and more often than not, those kinds of people are either addicted to sex, or loathe it completely.
We did see in the first episode he clearly loved the situation he was in, but he DID communicate that he hated it. And we can see that because the sex was unsatisfying, he didn't want anything to do with that person anymore, who ended up stalking him.

As someone who has lived that lifestyle of constantly putting myself in bad situations intentionally and unintentionally by being impulsive and reckless, the impulses DO die down if you deal with being fundamentally depressed and anxious.
Once I got into a solid, loving relationship, I've found myself loving more vanilla situations, and I definitely don't need as much pain to be turned on. I've found that the idea of being in pain and the idea of being "unsafe" and possibly "caught" are more than enough. But that's only because I'm completely safe and loved and cared for.

And that's why you need to experience those things in a safe setting. But ultimately Heewon just wasn't willing to give Taesoo that. He didn't like it. And he has every right to feel that way. Him letting this all happen was ultimately best for Taesoo because Taesoo needs to be able to WANT to get help and to help himself. If he doesn't want to get better, he'll get worse and worse.

I do think Heewon could definitely help him, and could have been that safe person for him. But that's a lot to ask of someone. Having someon3 help you move through those sides of yourself in ANY mental illness is a lot to ask of someone. Which is why people usually pay those kinds of people to help.

I just hope our MC gets the help he desperately needs and is able to become the loving partner Heewon deserves.

I'm so happy this is back

Now she has a legal reason to kick his ass

START WITH AN APOLOGY

I get it

What a dumbass

AJ needs to take things slow sex wise. It really fucks you up to be doing things high for so long, then trying to do it sober. I honestly doubt he's had sex with people that he WANTED to as well. Especially since he went from high school to that place. It might be an overwhelming experience for him.

What a green flag! So glad they're taking things slow

I'm really glad that he was able to come to his senses enough to use their safeword.

I absolutely adore and abhor these cliff hangers when things are about to get spicy

Comedy gold lol

I'm honestly against Tommy getting with ANYONE from the group. She needs to date outside the group because this group is messy af and will always have drama.

Does he know he's hot bc holy fuck

So glad she finally got her revenge on both the prince and Floa T.T Our girl deserves some peace and quiet after this! I can't wait to see her and Kael's kids

I'm so fucking pissed they kissed. All she's doing is using him because she's hurt by Howe. I just wish she would date outside of the group. All this is going to do is lead to more drama. She wants to hurt Howe. And maybe Linus now. Fuck. Fuck this entire group ISTG

At this point, I think it's funny that she didn't die from exhaustion like she thought. He was supposed to be poisoned, but she took the bait for him because he wanted her strawberry parfait more.

Date none of them, fuck all of them.