HOW ABOUT YOU CONFESS JIGU LAWD
lol no i think he'll get reject
well yes it’s about time the delusions stop
he's an idiot but I can't stomach it if he cry thats my child
a realistic and relatable story between a person with avoidant attachment style and a person with anxious attachment style, flawed characters but the story did well showing character developments. the ml definitely grew on me towards the end once his past was revealed and he did some self-reflection, people might think he’s being dramatic but comments that might seem insignificant to some people might become the bane of someone’s existence, especially when it comes to homophobia, you really can’t tell if you’ll lose your family over it so it was understandable why it caused the ml so much distress. i’m glad the brothers were able to talk it out by the end.
this is really one of those manhwa you’d go back to reread for a long time
i actually get gunjoon so bad like i’m not saying it’s wrong to start a relationship from having sex first but it does take away that beginning period of time when it’s all about the emotions and getting to know each other without other variables getting in the way. of course all of this could’ve been solved by talking through it more directly, but i understand that not everyone are able/comfortable with expressing themselves/love through words. that’s why i get gunjoon’s insecurity and doubts, i think he’s lacking a safety net he can fall back on because everything started without the romantic feelings, some people really need that foundation before building a relationship on top of it. anyhow i’m really excited to see how the story continues, crossing my fingers that this conflict doesn’t drag out for too long, i really like it so far how the story is aware of the characters’ faults and flaws, holding them accountable most of the time.
idk about y’all but i’m eating up the slowburn, just letting it marinate and hoping for the best lmaoooo
i’ve come to a conclusion that yeowoon is on the aroace spectrum, it’s just a headcanon of course but from what we’ve been reading it seems like he never actually had interest in anybody in general(?). it’s a spectrum so it’s not unusual for him to feel attraction, just that it’s so rare, and for the first time in almost three decades lol. anyways i’m happy he’s finally rethinking everything, it must be difficult but he’ll get there eventually #trust.
I guess thats why I find him so relatable lol
We know he’s had girlfriends before and is not a virgin, so I assume he’s always thought himself just straight, but now Jigu is challenging the sexuality he thought he figured out in high school.
Though I think it’s the BL “only gay for this one person” type of trope. I swear it’s only because Jigu is good looking and Yeowoon’s a sucker for pretty faces (づ￣ ³￣)づ
I like to think it’s the opposite. just because I’ve seen that trope played out so many times I cannot count on all my fingers but I don’t think they’re it’s just this because the author is actually making us come up with theories and stuff about his sexuality and actually having a character question their sexuality and go through that rationalization of questioning and challenging and trying to understand why do I like this, do I like that, am I into this, and why is that? and most authors that use that trope wouldn’t go the extra mile of doing that add subtext!!! so I think the author isn’t using that typical troupe but just actually having a character properly figure out their sexuality in a way that’s relatable. I also know he’s lost his virginity so my rationality or conclusion/confirmation would be that he’s demisexual since he didn’t really feel any attraction whatsoever to a lot of the previous people that keep asking him out and he had girlfriends but none of them ended up to have a long lasting relationship. he has finally found a romantic attraction to that has made him feel something that he hasn’t felt before.
ohhh i agree with this i think so too