Its funny how this became a reality check for everyone ( i have year finals in a month and its not helping hahahahah)
Why do they always refer to hyesung or like omegas in general as ,mom or aunty i mean that person is using he him pronouns and aligns with the male gender in all other aspects so isn't it weird?
maybe because they are birthgivers? and that term reflects feminine identity?? idk my guess
Some other omegaverse titles just refer to them as dad or similar male parental terms anyways, well at least never "aunty" from outsiders. They are going an extra mile to ensure this submissive, smaller, weaker, child carrying = "mom" imo.
yessss its weird, right? like ummm hyesung is still a man, and even then, not all mothers are submissive just bc they can conceive children. what’s with this? idk if i made any sense but i was also put off..
Agreed. It doesn't feel like gender fluidity or any gender queer identity stuff that'd make sense for a mixing of identifiers, it just feels like forcing a feminine title/role on a male character.
The He/She pronouns are mostly because of the English language.
In Korean there's a lot of words that do define gender tho like Oppa/Noona stuff, but particularly "He" and "She", "Him" and "Her", is just from the English translation.
Mom and Dad, Husband and Wife, Uncle and Aunt though are probably the family titles they give each other for distinction of roles rather than gender in this omegaverse.
In Love is an Illusion, Dojin was asked whether he was going to be a Dad or a Mom, and he answered he was going to be a Dad. So in their world, I assume that just meant whoever is the sperm giver's title is Dad and the birth giver's title is Mom.
At least that's what I assume, that those titles don't relate to femininity or masculinity but the roles in childbirth particularly, I think.
Like, probably in a female Alpha/female Omega situation one of them is also the husband or wife, the mom or dad, uncle or aunt too. But idk how it all works.
I understand that but ultimately if you look at it like an allegory of transgenderism it still doesnt make much sense to put that extra effort into going "mom" instead of papa or daddy (if dojin was already being called dad) cuz in this case is an alpha woman gonna be called dad still? Cuz this omegaverse setup in particular is aligning femininity with being the birthgiver but then again dojin's alpha sister has very traditional feminine features too so its weird and she even refers to her male omega as "spouse" unlike dojin who calls hyesung 'wife' . Whats with that?
Yep like all this wife, mom, aunty stuff being so normal to him even though he grew up believing he was an alpha i would assume there will be some feelings of discomfort with suddenly being the submissive one ?
It is exactly that, just throwing heteronormative roles on a mlm couple
The author depicting the bigger one as a bottom is very nice really but that doesnt mean u have to be permanently one role does it? Let a couple enjoy themselves in any way they wish, its not like they have a problem switching (besides the fact that he feels guilty about doing so cuz he thinks he is gonna hurt his bf)
The author, the creator of the characters indicated the positions in 2022 who's the bottom and top. There is no switching.
do you have an issue with couple's switching? U seem to be under every comment that mentions it. Good to know the author confirmed it. I was talking in general about how they can enjoy themselves however they please and the top was also fine with the idea of it so what's wrong?
Of course not. If the author depicts them a switches then I wouldn't give af but because they don't.
Headcanon is fine but when you're trying to push the narrative of them switching as canon then no which is a lot of what the comments are saying.
Lol in ur comment you are saying let the couple enjoy themselves but next moment ur are dictating them to not have any problem and switch where it is clear in the story dongchan doesn't want his hyung bottom which is mental issue and he is dealing with it(≧∀≦)
What do you mean dictating? I am saying more the options up to them? You're the one dictating hyung is some frail weak thing and can never explore otherwise. They both dont want the other to bottom cuz it might hurt but dongchan feels guiltier cuz of their past. All im saying is these people can be more than what their trauma (both mental and physical) is, doesn't necessarily have to be them switching but having more space to explore doesn't hurt. Its suggestive wording not dictating
That's what who r u to suggest them they can decide for themselves lol...imagine going to real life people and suggesting bro try this position...let them make decisions or in this case the author
And what do you mean i am dictating...dogchan is thinking that his hyung is weak author wrote that...lol...read the story as well except for the smut pictures (≧∀≦)
Um do you have a screw loose? Why the fuck would i say this to irl people? And smut pictures?
Do you really think someone sits and reads a beautiful queer story with hundreds of chapters just to look at the porn after ?
I understand what type of person you're assuming I am but really you're wrong. Besides, did you miss where hyung said "is he gonna lube me up". there is a certain openness to them
You aren't their close friend jumping to defend them from some "big pathetic fetishizer" okay? If you don't like how i interpret a story or see a fictional setup you can just not reply after this point. you have as much rights over this illegally consumed products as i do, you are no better.
I myself am fucking gay and a switch and i've had partners more than willing to explore themselves but mangas restrict it into heteronormative roles of locked in positions. which is why i have a preference of seeking out stories that have that potential. Please get educated instead of attacking whoever you please, or don't. Its all up to you anyways.
Besides, all i have done is state how i feel towards this story, the characters and the author's depiction, but you decided to declare how im abusing some sort of non existent authority and consuming this series as if its porn.
Please grow up. This isn't a big enough deal to be acting so embarrassing. If you have any real intel that can prove why my mindset harms real people or anything then go on.
Yeah yeah i get it just like u trying to open up scenario i am limiting it to one so -- we have different expectations from the story ur okay give ur opinion but always be ready have some counter as well Sweety.
Life is short no need to get angry and curse while writing take a deep breath and let it go. These are fiction anyway i guess your are pretty young to have chill conversations. Taking these discussions to seriously.
Lets stop replying and get spammed with notification . Peace
Okay grandmama whatever you say :3. I only respond the same energy i receive hehe and if your definition of mature conversations is being defiled because of my cursive then maybe next time not be so passive aggresive? Stay on topic. Peace to you too.
He stays a bottom, take it or leave it. Y'all only spout this bullshit when the tall dude is the bottom
What's wrong? That he NOW likes topping and he should stay doing so. LET SHORT GUYS TOP
Just as there is gay guys who switch, there is also guys who have either permanent roles or just simply prefer one over the other and that's okay too. Why do y'all always gotta spout some measly bullshit of "mangas restricting heteronormative roles of locked in positions"?? Like let these guys stay as bottoms and tops. Nothing wrong or hetero about that.
They're gonna do all that with the positions they chose
Just realized max mulder creepy fuck is the same max whos the sponsor of shinya from 10 dance. Creepy piece of shit through and through bozo even drugged and assualted people there too man wtf
I hope they switch fr
Why yall scared ass bitches hating
HAHA, they didn't switch. Dongchan bottom always!!
Haha bitch, suck it
Um well sure lmao. They didn't switch so what? Get a life, i already forgot about this. Theres nothing to be this serious about a manhwa. I would say stereotypical looking ships can switch too its all great not just these two I hope you're doing okay living with all this bitterness @ineedavacation
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