This hurt so bad to read. I used to have a friend on the spectrum, and that's exactly what happened minus me lashing out (he was the one to lash out trying to shift the blame on me). He fucked up big time and couldn't say he was sorry. :( I hoped for years he'd reach out
He never did and it'd feel so good to see Dohu do that at least...
It was terrible when she started listing qualities of him she assumed him to have...
Y'all don't understand, she was a female equvalent of toxic men who say shit like "what I like about you is that you are not like other girls"
Also she never admitted to anything wrong that she did in response to everything he said. which made it seem like he was the only one at fault and she was an angel. she needed to apologize too.
Aaand... I hated that she said they fought over something petty. It wasn't petty
She was demanding from him something he couldn't give - just didn't have it, it made him feel even more self-hating and inadequate. It wasn't intentional, but I think in the end she made his life worse. Some people have said before that she wanted to "fix" him, and now I see it too. When you want to fix someone, 1) you are looking down on them 2) your self-esteem is what needs to be fixed actually 3) you can never fix anyone anyway









bro is so dumb he even blushes in inappropriate circumstances. he genuinely just doesn't understand what's going on and what's he doing. how is this pre-historic man is going to evolve into smth more coherent is beyond me
like bro's got negative emotional literacy