
She was demanding from him something he couldn't give - just didn't have it, it made him feel even more self-hating and inadequate. It wasn't intentional, but I think in the end she made his life worse. Some people have said before that she wanted to "fix" him, and now I see it too. When you want to fix someone, 1) you are looking down on them 2) your self-esteem is what needs to be fixed actually 3) you can never fix anyone anyway

just started reading... girl wdym if the work starts at 9, he's gotta be there at least at 8:30..
"at least" ??
8:30?? tf are you supposed to do for 30 mins? yoga?

i can tell you don't work in a corporate place usually arriving 30 minutes before allows you to plan for the day, go through emails and make sure there are no remaining tasks that require your attention. It helps set out what you're gonna do for the whole day, rather than getting there at 9 and wasting time planning.
It was terrible when she started listing qualities of him she assumed him to have...
Y'all don't understand, she was a female equvalent of toxic men who say shit like "what I like about you is that you are not like other girls"
Also she never admitted to anything wrong that she did in response to everything he said. which made it seem like he was the only one at fault and she was an angel. she needed to apologize too.
Aaand... I hated that she said they fought over something petty. It wasn't petty
Well no! Those men are in fact misogynist. Y'all need to stop with this "if the roles were reverse" bs cuz they not in any way comparable
Frrr