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Right! I hope it too. They're such cutie.........

Indeed it is our little cuty pies

Cutie*

yes haha Too adorable >3

Indeed it is...

Where have you seen that? I only saw one person say they didn't like Seth but definitely didn't hate him. In fact thinks he deserves better. Unless your talking about anybody whose willing to say that Seth put himself in this predicament, but I would hardly call that hate for him, but rather a reminder that he is responsible as well. Idk maybe some do, but I have yet to see anybody say this in the comments. Am I missing something?

I saw a couple of them one recently and in the older ones were some too.. and don’t forget people who likes Sam more they also didn’t like Seth (ok maybe i should said “why people here doesn’t like Seth” instead of hate... but still the fact that they doesn’t like Seth? That alone I can’t understand it? Or is it me that thinks Seth is normal cute and a Better choice for Henry?

I see. I guess I never really saw any. I think it's very far from just you that thinks Seth is the better choice. I could be way off base, but I think alot of the ones that like Sam don't dislike Seth, just don't like him for Henry. Personally, I don't dislike any of them. I still don't ship anyone, but I do tend to stick up for Sam simply because I think so many are missing so much regarding him. And it's not like you really get any inner dialogue from him, just have to pay close attention to all the small and large stuff. On the flip side, I like Seth too, but definitely don't think he's as pure and innocent and straightforward as many commenters do. Henry holds a special place for me for personal reasons. He is very frustrating, but I expected that he would be from page one. He has alot of self worth among other things to work on.

I can understand what you said... and true too about Henry.. I don’t hate Sam I think how he does thinks and how he behaves are strange to understand him maybe we need to see more of his point of view but right now he’s really selfish and making it hard for Henry... and Seth right now he is indeed sweet and innocent and straight forward but at the same time it’s sad for him to go after a guy that is in love with someone else.. so I wait and see what happens.. but still Henry needs to make things clear to both of them what he really wants

Does that makes sense?

I hear what you're saying, I just interpret these characters differently. To me, I can understand alot of the ways Sam behaves or thinks. Doesn't necessarily mean I agree with everything he does, but can understand his perspective. I can see where people see his selfish qualities because they are made more obvious, but I personally I can see more selfishness in Henry and in Seth. Henry makes things harder for Henry. And Seth may be straighforward in some ways but certainly not in others. Seth started this whole "relationship" with Henry with a lie. As far as Henry goes, he can't clear things up with either one because he is not clear himself of wants he wants or needs. He's an emotional mess that is afraid to lose people but even more afraid to have them too close.

Yeah that’s true that’s way I was like stop with making Henry confused because he can’t get out off this triangle relationship.. and I can also see the point of view from Sam that If maybe he has feelings of Henry just maybe he couldn’t say his feelings for him to Henry because he was afraid to lose him as an friend? I think confessing your feelings is brave and at the same time scary so only if Sam has those feelings than I can understand him on that part and sometimes he react like “it’s mine candy, only mine alone” so that’s a little bit of possessiveness but like I said before I hope to see good results and i shall wait and see

Oh and yes about Seth the part of him that said that he didn’t mind to be an substitute that disturb me a lot

The confusion works both ways. Henry is confusing both Sam and Seth with his actions just as well. And personally I see the possessiveness of both Henry and Seth as well. Just with Seth it isn't as in your face and with Henry it's more mind manipulating. Same results though.

Indeed we still have alot to uncover and it shall be a good read.

Indeed it is in one word all of them have issues hahah

But I guess Sam is more aggressive with his way of doing things than the other two but we Shall see how it ends I do want to see a happy ending for them all and I do hope that Henry is going to be focused on one person and stop thinking about the past..

I would say his way of doing things now are more out of confused desperation that led to an aggressive outburst. But depending on how you look at the word aggression, I would say Henry displays quite a few behaviors that lead to aggression. Seth, from the beginning, has tried to force things into something they're not, hoping they will become what he wants out of his sheer will.

Henry is struggling to focus on one person because he has refused to deal with his real feelings and emotions, but instead slaps a bandaid on it. Sometimes you need to fix your past in order to move on to a better future.

That’s true also you need to face the past to heal them and to have a better future.. but sometimes it’s sucks.. sometimes you can’t heal it or face it so than you let it go! And I think he doesn’t have the courage to face reality and his past? No? I do think each of them need to make really good decisions and thinks things true because how it is right now is unsolved with sam and it’s a weight on the the relationship with Seth?! I do think it’s give a lot of pressure, also I think Seth will be jealousy and sad about what happens with Sam and Henry

Of course it sucks. Self betterment is almost always a tough process. But there is a difference between letting go and not dealing, and Henry is plain not dealing. And of course noone can force someone to deal or change, it has to be when one is ready and of there own will. That being said, they have to realize that it costs the people around them heartache as well and they have to be able to deal the way the need to also.

And yes, Seth was jealous of Sam the first time they met, without realizing what it was or why.

That’s true and sometimes you don’t have full control over the situation(out of control) or like most people that the emotional progress get the better hand of the situation.. but also you get yourself in an visual-circle..

So I hope for the best and that Henry makes the choices that he wants and that he doesn’t regret them afterwards and that of course he will make the best discussion and the right one too.. and that it will also be a better choice fore everyone...

Yes, we shall sit back, enjoy, and see how it unfolds

Sam be a good friend and move on..

Henry isn’t leading Sam on, even though it’s kind of wrong what he is doing with Sam, he just can’t conpletely refuse Sam. But he is indead being an asshole with the younger one, saying theres nothing with Sam and tellling him it’s ok to go further, and yet he keep getting involved with sam.

Yeah..
but what I really meant with my post is that they are confusing Henry about sam and Sam is hella confusing Henry at this point Henry isn’t sure what to do anymore and isn’t sure what to do about his feelings! Cause right now I thought it went well and good for him and Seth.. I mean I thought he moved on and give Seth a change and it looks to me that he is happy with him.. I think nobody understood my post hehe

Oh yeah on the last part your right about hurting Seth I do also think that’s bad like really bad that pore marshmallow getting hurt hurts my heart he’s so sweet

Well if Henry stops everything with Sam from now on, he is clear because he didnt go too far with either of them to be considered a BAD thing. But i’m sure he will keep it going longer

Well for me, Henry is the problem here. Even if you love/like 2 people, i dont understand why you can’t choose one. I mean sure you can take your time to think but he is the one making all the drama by giving in to 2 person at the same time.

That’s also what I mean whit really bad is he keeps this up.. also because Seth said he didn’t mind to be an substitute but off course right now he wants to be his number 1 choice instead of Sam but we do not know right now what he wants or wants to. Also about this situation I guess he doesn’t realise what’s really going on. Also about Sam to us it’s obviously how he is and how obsessed he is like his sister said so we will see but I do hope it doesn’t turn ugly like ugly painful

Yeah that’s also true! But I thought he moved on with his feelings about Sam and focusing on Seth that’s what I saw in them also in the beginning I found it hart for Seth knowing he is comparing the two and looking at Seth with Sam in his mind so and later on I saw a little bit progressing towards Seth so and then bam here comes sam with his declaration of love... and again confusing Henry with it because he saw Henry moving on to Seth... it’s not only entirely his fault

Maybe Henry is afraid to stop it entirely because of their long term of friendship?

I mean, its like if you have a bestfriend and a guy who’s not your boyfriend but it’s almost there. Then your bestfriend make a move on you, you have to make a choice, you can’t just ignore the situation and keep doing stuff with both. Characters in yaois are always so dumb with their lack of decisiveness.

That’s so true! Sadly Most of Them are like that