
Why they make dick sucking seem gross or weird in some BL. And they always gasp and act all shocked if their partner swallows. I just don't get it.

i mean.. have you actually tasted sperm? thats shits nasty, it obvious most people would rather have their partner cum on their body that swallow that
also, idk what was gross/weird about that? i mean its a gay comic so obviously its gonna be a little exaggerated but other than that its just normal dick sucking? i guess the ML was just sensitive thats why he reacted that way and came fast

I don't mind swallowing. It doesn't taste like candy but it's not the worst thing ever like they make it seem. Also, idk if you misunderstood me but I don't mean I find dick sucking gross. I mean I get the impression that characters in BL find dick sucking gross.
Every time someone goes down, they go "that's dirty, don't do that", "that's gross", etc. I don't get that.

yeah i mean thats because its human genitalia, so obviously it gets sweaty and dirty, thats why you usually shower before sex, and thats what they meant when they say its dirty, most of the times the person catches them off guard before they can clean up, when they’re after a whole day/work ect. Like imagine if your partner wants to rim you before you can clean up your ass, obviously its not gross on its own but its sometimes gross when you dont prepare properly (sorry for being so forward with the comparison lmao)

This was kinda fluffyish and the seme is going red flag psycho. I know he was always portrayed as possessive but he went crazy this chapter.
1. A FRIEND has their arm around your spouse and you get pissy? So he can't be close to friends?
2. He can't have anyone's number saved??? What do you mean delete the ones he doesn't need?
3. This one was the biggest ick for me. Your spouse suggests a nice place to go and your FIRST reaction is to press them about who they went with?? So, should he jump into a time machine and erase any memories he had with non-relatives that weren't you??? He went with those people before you guys were dating, so it's literally irrelevant. Even if he went out with people while yall were official, should he no longer go out with friends and classmates?
It's so exhausting seeing authors romanticize this type of scary behaviour. And ofc the uke just rolls over and nods his head yes like an airhead.

YES and they write it like it's a cute thing but him getting actually pissed at him for chilling with his friend is annoying. That isnt cute !! I like possessive ness but when it makes sense or if they address he needs to tone it down, but when they have him straight up not liking his boyfriend being friends with people and ASKING his boyfriend to stop being friends with people is a trope that needs to die

They rarely address it. This takes me back to when the seme was becoming emotionally abusive in My Suha. Uke found out his SO lied to his family and hid his phone to isolate him; his response? He cried for like a chapter or 2, then it was poor seme has abandonment issues, then they glossed over it and they're a happy couple.
The uke in this story doesn't even have a negative reaction like in my suha, he actually enables it. So, I highly doubt we'll even get a panel addressing it.

I hate when they do that!! like like damn, please get mad that man not only disrespected you but probably violated like five of your human rights
I really hope they dont do that where he does something awful then gets forgiven immediately cause of his tragic backstory. I mean, sure forgive him but i pray if something actually does happen he has a backbone and actually feels angry for a decent bit instead of being mildly upset for a chapter or two before reverting to "poor him<3 he needs me"
And yeah, they never really address this stuff, it usually only the sss tier, high quality stories that ever acknowledge that behaviour is destructive

Why would you keep mentioning that he's still flaccid when you know it's a sore spot for your partner??
Also, I'd love to see how the uke is gonna act when he's 70. He might kill himself because he thinks he's to old to continue living. Why is he acting like 40 is the end of his life, like he's old and decrepit?

The fucking disrespect. I wish the uke slapped tf out of him. Tf you mean "chained to a sick mother"? My mother is not a burden, bitch. Talk about me but talking about my family is where I'd have to smack someone.
Also, if you were so disgusted by a guy liking you, why are you mad I'm cutting contact? Don't you want to avoid the disgusting homo??
Also, also, if you were so grossed out, why would you "enjoy the reactions"?
I hope Jinwoo beats his motherfucking ass before he leaves Korea.
Dominic knows Eugene is a vampire, oh shit.