Men are so manipulative ig let's just choose the one that manipulates for a good reason..
So I have a friend that ghosted me bc of their personal reasons (even I don't know what exactly prompted them to) but we were super duper close, as in the type of close where we could tell what each other would say without speaking, looking at each other is enough to say a million gossips etc. I truly valued them and loved them (as a friend) so muc......
I'M IN SHAMBLES THEY AREN'T 'DESTINED' BUT THEY LOVE EACH OTHER UNTIL OLD AGE????
Like, tell me if this is normal and y'all have also experienced it?? I'm super happy for my friend that they're finally getting more popular in their craft but at the same time I'm like ugh I should've been more consistent I wish I was her yk?? Idk like, I'm not jealous in the hateful ugly way as per say, ig I'm more of disappointed at myself for a......
Grandma told me I was gonna die just because I was spending time with my cats when I was having such a good time and lectured me for 30 mins, the cosplay I wanted to do first was done by other people first bc my lazy ass friend who I commissioned a cosprop from is TOO FUCKING LAZY TO DO IT, so now everyone else has done it and it's not unique anymo......
Like for example when you're in an important position like (class officers in school, team leads at work etc.) and you know some of the people around you hate you and you know you have your own lapses, how do you get your confidence back? I don't need answers like 'I'm a bad bitch' etc etc like genuinely how I need help
I'm not taking about those that you came to hate so you just cut the right tf off, I'm talking about those who you actually wanted to stay but due to whatever circumstances or situations that happened, you just became like, not friends anymore