
i find funny how she doesnt forgive her mother but i guess forgives her husband

Touche. I think the whole thing with her mom is since childhood so a lot more damage there. Because you can feel/be equal to your partner, but Infront on your parents your subconscious is always just a defenseless child. So I think it's harder to forgive her mother's indifference and favoritism towards Ash.

It pains more when it is one of your parents, she understands her mother's reasons which is why she couldn't forgive her yet, but she didn't understood Winter and I think that's why she was more forgiving. If it was a partner, you'll always be hung up on the what ifs, but a parent's doing is always hurtful no matter what the reason was.
i hope this is a gl