
but like. y'all gotta realize that in order for him to be held accountable, reiji would have to out himself. his ex could play it off as reiji coming onto him (even if that's not the case) and like. which would people be more likely to believe was the instigator? the man with a wife, or the man with a boyfriend? his ex could've very well spun it as mc & ml trying to get back at him for something, and like the ex said, if reiji were to explain the situation he'd never find work again. like,,, there are so many more angles to this than just his ex getting what's coming to him.

that ido has been though losing sejin TWICE now. he's had to go through his whole reincarnation with the trauma of watching sejin kill himself, knowing that if he fucked up he'd have to experience that again AND while knowing that sejin knows NONE OF THIS and will probably make similar decisions this time and hurt ido again. we haven't really gotten a look at ido's background but i'm willing to bet it played a key role in his actions in the first round. if y'all're so desperate to exonerate sejin of everything just because of the way he was raised, then i'm sure you won't mind doing the same thing to ido, right? neither one of them is wholly innocent in this. sejin has made a conscious choice to avoid the truth multiple times, we've seen the recurring imagery of pandora's box. he knew something was off, but chose to dismiss it instead of approaching it with the goal of understanding. and now he's choosing to hold the things ido did and the mistakes he learned from against him, even though in this life ido went out of his way to be better to sejin. he remembered sejin's preferences and acted accordingly. he gave him a bathtub with a skylight ffs.

y'all want to blame everything on ido so much it's insane- literally they both fucked up but ido chose to do better with his second chance despite knowing that sejin would most likely make the same decisions and hurt him again... fuck outta here with saying ido's the only one at fault

I love how you understand it so well, and I hate how people don't really get it. How easy people make it to not even give a second chance to things, all that mental health talk to only give crap about it when it's related to you, and not even give the other person's mental health an ounce of your understanding. The double standards are more often than not. Perseverance is made fun of... as I say this, I don't mean that everything needs to be out up with, but I'm pointing out the fact that their are always grey areas, only fools are so stringent about Black and white
I love how Sejin is taking his time and I also love how Ido used the second chance !!!
They both have had personal growth, one that happens when WELL literally you are in the right space of mind.
whoever put three t's in stutter should be dragged into the street and beaten to death with a plastic spork >:/