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Sometimes the love is not that pure. Sometimes head tries to be rational but possession and lust is more powerful... This is more RL scenario that people acting reasonably. Life is one big bad decision struggle... 乁| ･ ･ |ㄏ

Even though you are right, life just doesn't work like that.
I've seen and experienced how people have a hard time understanding other people's fears and traumas. Everybody have their own perspective on things, and we all tend to think that others see and feel things the same way se do.
Just yesterday a friend of mine was telling me how beneficial would be for me to go live to a high place to overcome my fear of heights.
I think Shii's actions have a very realistic side.

Tamaki doesn’t know about he trauma other than he saw his more having sex, not that he promised his mom all of these things and she mentally scarred and tormented him. He doesn’t know all of those things. One may suspect some but I dont think wants to look deeper cuz he’s afraid of what he’ll find and that he won’t be be able to fall in love with him

But Shii said that he just want him to tell him the true, so he force him, the worst way to gain the confidence

To each his own. But I disagree with the problematic behavior in response to another person's refusal being justified as realistic.

im sorry shii didnt tell him to have sex to get over his trauma HE FORCED HIMSELF ON HIM two very different things and if you want to relate it to real life our good ol teen rapist would be in juvie

So you are saying that when someone creates a story they should forget about psichology and reality and just go for unrealistic fluff, is that it?
I think it is great when they analize people's mistakes and their consequences, and they make it so readers can learn something from it. For example when Shii is forcing Tamaki and now he risks being hated. A lot of other yaois show super abusive semes and make it look like something great, in this one the abused person got angry and the abuser is having regrets, I think it is an improvement compared to other ones (not that it is perfect, because in the end I am pretty sure they will end being happy together, but we still need to ser the development).

I just said the most recent thing that happened to me, I have far worse than that, if that is what you want XD
What I meant is that he is doing it with good intentions* because he is failing to understand the other party's feelings, not that what he did was right.
And I don't think he would be in prison or anything similar (sorry, I don't understand what juvie means) in real life, there was no penetrative sex. In a perfect world he could have some kind of trouble with justice, but reality is scary when it comes to sex abuse...

*when I say "good intentions" I understand that he is in fact doing it for his own good, because he wants to get the love of the person he loves, but I mean that he is not trying to hurt him, he just thinks that Tamaki in fact wats it and that he is a step away from being able to help him.

Has any if you read Fight on! Yeo manager?
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/fight_on_yeo_manager/

They ridicule some of the usual stupidities in yaois, one of the last chapters has the girl throwing some verbal punches to an abusive seme and it was orgasmic.

lmao bold of you to assume id prefer it unrealistic hahahahahaha. As I have previously implied, this is a "preference". Something Id rather. I even started my comment with "Sorry but..." and my reply even begins with "To each his own". I read the story too. I developed an opinion. And I acknowledge your opinions. That's why I did not get into a full blown explanation of my side. But scratch that now, because I want to convey my side and probably those who agreed with this comment too.

Tamaki refused him because it was logical he would. Shii has not shown any genuine remorse yet. Let's assume this is real life, would you have so easily forgiven a friend, someone who knows your troubles and who was like a brother to you, to just sexually assault you? Because that, that there is real Psychology and human behavior. This one sure is better than the completely rapey stories, but it doesn't make it that much better morally. Being the main character doesn't excuse bad behavior.

I dont know how the author would go with this, and I just simply stated how irresponsible Shii's decisions were and how it saddens me that Tamaki would just forgive and love him as most stories go. The story is even already veering towards it right now. However, it doesn't mean I hate this story. When I initially said "At this point" it means "at this point". The story is not over. Shii could redeem himself and thatd be fine with me. But do I want him to be with Tamaki right now with his half-assed compassion? No.

Well, that is all. Cheers.

I don't think that Tamaki has ever opened up to Shii about his trauma for him to understand in depth. He just a small glimpse on what was happening as a kid, but never the whole situation and it affected Tamaki. He just thinks he's confused with his sexuality.

Just seen a small glimpse*
How it affected Tamaki**

Do you have the Raws can you sent it to me pls(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Whaaaat noooooo, where did you get the raws?

sorry guys, my friend read it in korean and just gave me a rough translation of it so no, I don't have a link. A few people post the raws on facebook though

Oh ok thanks though ╮(￣▽￣)╭

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