Kshna143's Topics (322)

Same.

it’ll more troublesome if you have personality disorder..i’ve been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder comorbid bipolar with psychosis..the personality disorder make everything i feel is intense..i love too much,hate too much,think too much..everything is too much..it’ll turn to hell if it clash with my manic episode..ughh

I’ve always thought that something was wrong with the way I think, love, feel, and hate so I stay away from people. Im to scared if they get to close and I brake down from going in circles in my mind that I'll lose them because they don’t understand me. Reading manga is my safe place. It’s the one place where I don’t over think although I feel like I can’t breath when I read certain mangas.

this manga and Given are the most triggering manga for me..sometimes it made my depressive episode go too intense..sometimes i got flashback..

When it happens take a breather try to keep reminding yourself that although you can relate that this, It is just a story. Its hard don't get me wrong. I catch myself over thinking about the characters pain. I have to remind myself a lot to.

i always drop it for a while and pick it up back when i’m stable enough

Knowing when to stop is good enough

I think that's a general issue in Japan's society

indeed

i’ve been in japan for several times..my dead bf also japanese and he is indeed have communication issue..always misunderstanding everything etc..

For some reason I feel it's usually like that normally regardless of country. Things are easier to see on the outside I guess. When your caught up in a situation you don't see certain things until after ya know. Unless your me that see things and do nothing about it.

did you mean it’s normal..?? i mean..i usually know when he (my bf) started misunderstand something..but ue choosed to ignored it whenever i tried to explain every thing..the ego etc..

I think Japan is really something different when it comes to communication, I think it is similar in many Asian countries
I lived in South Korea and people were very secretive about everything
They didn't like confrontation or arguments and would just ignore what was happening around them
Even if something went wrong and someone was misunderstanding smth, they would rather choose to ghost you, ignore you than talk to you

It's "normal" as in it happens quite "often" in life. Doesn't mean it's the right way. I also ignore things instead of confronting it. The thing is though I do look at both sides which is rare. I tend to stand on the sidelines rather than get involved even though I might be directly involved. Again it doesn't mean it's right. I'm refering to this in terms of relationships...which also includes friendship as well.

Yes I am aware of how Asian culture specifically Korea,Japan and china are (since of course there are many other countries in Asia). I know those countries I mentioned above are more extreme where communication is concerned but humans in general regardless of religion or culture (yes that has a lot of effect..since Americans are more open) humans..ah when your caught up in your own emotions it's hard to see things clearly that's all I ment.

i see..