
I was scared halfway through this manwha. I thought it would end up being a Stockholm syndrome type deal and not only that, its a "im gay for you" story. I can't really stand it but the way the author knew everything she was doing with all of the psychological, social and personal affects of psychopathy made me appreciate that aspect of the story. Not to mention the art is stunning and one of the reasons I pressed on. My biggest problem with this, is it plays into the whole idea that someone thinks they can change a psychopath. It's a dangerous mindset and idea to spread, especially if there are younger readers. You can't change someone hardwired the way are, and don't try to. But all in all, I liked this manwha. I liked how gritty it was. It gave me Death Note vibes and I love the character designs. 8/10 id recommend it to psychology fans.

Yeah, I don’t feel like this was a story where someone was trying to change the other. Kirin is well aware of the type of person he’s dating and he has no illusions of that changing.
Maybe some people could misconstrue some of his actions as trying to “change” Kang Moo, but he’s pretty much accepted the fact that someday the other party might go off the rails and there is nothing he can do but watch him fall.
I don’t think that’s something someone who wants to change someone would think and I don’t think that’s what he’s trying to do at all.

I think the tag debate can be labeled as a marketing thing. Japan is still very traditional and behind when it comes to queer rights and visibility. The author wrote a BL, and was labeled as BL. That's how its sold. But art is subjective, including text. Which means you are free to interpret a story any way you please, just like your English teachers did in middle school while you read To Kill A Mockingbird. You get to decide whether or not J is indeed a Trans woman or a transvestite. In things like BL, the "bottom" is seen as a female for being a bottom, which is a possibility when it comes to this manga. It took that literally. But I think that the tag is less important, and your feelings about it are what you should focus on. That is the reason we fight. It's heartwarming to see a story about a Trans woman. Even as bittersweet as this one. So please do not stop fighting, and let J be recognized as a woman, and not as the depraved, traumatized gay man who likes to dress as a woman this could be interpreted as.
TL;DR, fuck the tags, 2004 fucking sucked. Art is subjective which means J is a trans woman who went through hell and back to be herself.

fuckin Joowoon... he's probably a gemini...fuckin gemini man.. I'm telling you.

Oh yes! aquarius have a hard time forming attachment (just like geminis) but Haesoo is a little too soft for an aquarius, though. Maybe that scorpio on his birth chart (as Girasol mentioned) might had something to do with it. Scorpios tend to be a little more emotional (they are water signs after all) than an aquarius which is an air sign. Btw, I am pleasantly surprise to find some many people here are interested in astrology. I always try to figure out which astrological sign the characters he/she belongs to based on their behavior. Its fun! :D
Himbos, Himbos everywhere ~ww °▽°