Kim Dokjas Thighs November 7, 2025 10:04 pm

GUYS i need help. My hair used to be really light, fluffy, voluminous and even a lighter color but I’m dealing with such bad buildup that it’s the complete opposite of that Even worse, nothing I’ve tried is getting rid of it!! Closest I’ve come to it getting better is when I did a baking soda and castor/rosemary oil exfoliation but it only worked for one day and immediately went back to before.

I’ve used my regular clarifying shampoo that used to clean my hair pretty well but hasn’t fixed it. (Paul Mitchell shampoo 2) I’ve also tried shampooing twice. Apple cider vinegar rinses. Other DIY exfoliations. Rn I’m too broke for a chelating shampoo or glycolic/salicylic exfoliator and scalp scrubs. I might try some when I get some more money.. I also don’t wanna buy a bunch of clarifying shampoos or whatever and find that none work.

If anyone has any products or tips pleaseee help me.
I have low porosity, thick, slightly wavy hair.

Also, I think the buildup occurred from me using dry shampoo too often and a new shampoo I started using a year ago to help for when my clarifying shampoo became too drying. I also do have hard water, but I’ve had hard water for 5 years and it never caused buildup like this as far as I know.

    Jet November 7, 2025 11:25 pm

    If you can, try a quick reset wash with a lil dish soap (just once!) and super warm water to lift the residue, then follow with a light conditioner just on your ends. You can also dissolve a pinch of citric acid or lemon juice in water as a DIY chelating rinse until you can grab a real one! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Okami07 November 7, 2025 11:51 pm

    I hope it's a phase for your hair otherwise if you are a teenager you might be stuck with this new scalp (because of hormone change, people start to have scalp issues at this age)
    I have the same type of hair as you (low porosity, thick, slightly wavy hair) and when I was around 14-15 I started to have buildup and it never left ╥﹏╥ I tried the common solutions and it didn't work (nizoral shampoo, etc) but not the more expensive stuff like multiple appointments with a dermatologist (during the first they usually recommend the same common solutions)
    I don't think dry shampoo is the cause unless you use it every other day and mind you regular shampoo is able to remove that kind of residue

    But to lighten the mood a little, nearly one in two people have dandruffs or scalp issues. So it's actually pretty common

Kim Dokjas Thighs September 25, 2025 2:34 am

Wanna cry bc I’ve noticed my memory has become so so bad and my ability to spell, speak, and knowledge of grammar as a whole has severely depleted. I forget the meanings and spellings of basic/common words all the time, can’t remember any names if anyone or anything anymore, things I did today/the day before, etc. My brain is just overall trash rn

    I'm just broke September 25, 2025 3:19 am

    It's best you consult to a psychologist when you can, I'm not entirely sure why this would happen or how since you are a stranger and I do not know your personal life, nor am I a professional in any. So I obv wouldnt be able to give you any strong advice. And I dont want to state the obvious with common advice like walking to somewhere like a park, or journaling what you saw or did today


    I wish you good health in the future and wish your memory gets better as well stranger, or kim dokjas thighs lol

    Kim Dokjas Thighs November 10, 2025 11:37 pm
    It's best you consult to a psychologist when you can, I'm not entirely sure why this would happen or how since you are a stranger and I do not know your personal life, nor am I a professional in any. So I obv w... I'm just broke

    Thanks! I don’t have insurance though, unfortunately. I think maybe the problem is being on electronics wayyy too much and not socializing much. I just hope it’s reversible

Kim Dokjas Thighs September 23, 2025 8:48 pm

I’ve been thinking about this a lot here lately. I know for the longest time I never knew real people were used for video games/most video games and thought the character’s faces were made up unless it was someone I could definitely recognize lmao. But using face models is very popular now. But to me, many times the video game character still seems/looks different from the face model so I just always see them as two different people completely unless it’s a situation with graphics like Death Stranding. Other than that most of the time I don’t see the face model as the same as the character, even physically.

I also have been thinking about this because I learned Leon Kennedy’s face model hates being associated with Leon Kennedy now bc so many fans started flooding his posts and talking about Leon Kennedy and sexualizing him. Like, Leon’s face model is handsome and kind if resembles Leon but they look very different. And why go for him when you have Leon himself??? And I saw an old Reddit post about the face model and voice actor for Connor from Detroit: Become Human. They said seeing sexual art of Connor made them feel gross because Connor is an actual person. Or people comparing Trish’s face model to her in game design for DMC and saying the model is prettier than Trish, etc.

So, idk I’ve just been thinking about it. Is the video game character and the model the same? Does sexualizing the character = sexualizing the actor? Do you guys view them as two separate entities?

    Matteuzzo September 23, 2025 11:21 pm

    Personally, I do view the characters and their actors as separate entities, because they are, after all. They only share the same face and maybe a few other aspects, but in the end, they are different and exist in different spaces/ universes. I think this is the healthy way to think about it and people should absolutely not harass the actors for simply doing their job. But oh well...it's unfortunately something inevitable and actors will have to deal with such people too. It's also understandable that some would take ofense and be bothered by people sexualizing their characters, especially if they grew attached to them and came to identify as them to a point and if people harass them because of a role they once played. But the internet will always do its thing and it can't be stopped. For thr most part, I think sexualizing characters is fine (depending on the context and as long as it's nothing too problematic). They do not exist and can't be hurt. Franchises earn a lot from the gooners' pockets too. But when it extends to their actors, which are real people with feelings and conscience, it's bad. All they did was do their job well. It's not their fault some people didn't fully develop their frontal lobe.

Kim Dokjas Thighs September 9, 2025 7:09 pm

THE BEST FUCKING BODY TYPE RAHHH. Fat ass and fat thighs with some wide hips, it’s beautiful. Dokja with pear body shape…mmmmm. Kim Dan with pear body shape….yummy. Haemin with his breeding hips. Gimme that. I’m telling you, pear shaped body type is the absolute best when it comes to twinks.

Kim Dokjas Thighs September 1, 2025 6:24 am

In almost every BL, the top likes fucking the bottom while someone is watching. Or doesn’t gaf. Even if they’re incredibly possessive and wouldn’t want their lover flirting, cheating, someone else liking them, etc. Which kinda makes no sense bc how can some of them be so jealous and not want some other person liking their partner but also enjoy doing the boombayah with a crowd of people watching Anyways, I find it very interesting that almost all of them have some sort of exhibitionist kink

    Munakata September 1, 2025 7:01 am

    its totally some kind of ownership thing LOL. you're def right, it's partly an exhibitionist kink but you also mentioned possessive tops... possessive tops want to show the world who belongs to them so i guess that means having sex in front of people??? "his butt is mine and only mine" or whatever...

    lay September 1, 2025 8:06 am

    bro what are YOU reading???i rarely see stuff like that ???

    September 1, 2025 9:56 am

    I think its kind of like an ownership thing like the other person said. Like you can look but you cant touch or some shit i agree tho, what the hell are you reading LMAO

Kim Dokjas Thighs August 29, 2025 5:33 pm

So many times I click on smut and some random shit pops up that WASN’T IN THE TAGSSSS. Even worse when the fic didn’t differentiate college or high school setting

Kim Dokjas Thighs August 14, 2025 11:44 pm

It used to let me have 2 pages of history, but now it’s only letting me have one. So sad.

Kim Dokjas Thighs August 12, 2025 2:25 pm

The second page of my reading history has randomly disappeared?? It’s never done this before. I refreshed and it’s still not there

Kim Dokjas Thighs July 27, 2025 1:19 am

I’m talking about stuff like the rain cycle, how volcanoes erupt, how rocks are formed, mitochondria is the power house of the cell, the light spectrum, how many amendments there are, the presidents, algebra, stoichiometry etc. I have come to realize I basically forgot everything I was taught in school. The moment a school year finished, all the stuff I learned disintegrated in my mind It kind of sucks because I don’t know basic shit

    Ikyno July 27, 2025 1:40 am

    It makes sense the way school is set up you’re learning simply for a test and not to carry with you throughout your whole life. Stuff like that in which you have zero interest in is not going to go into your long term memory.

    ayaoya July 27, 2025 1:41 am

    I remember the gist of how things works, but not the exact scientific terms and specific details

    Kim Dokjas Thighs July 27, 2025 1:54 am
    It makes sense the way school is set up you’re learning simply for a test and not to carry with you throughout your whole life. Stuff like that in which you have zero interest in is not going to go into your ... Ikyno

    Even things I found interesting I forgot. I just have a hard time remembering things for some reason, idk

Kim Dokjas Thighs July 26, 2025 7:54 pm

If I had talent, I’d be making cool af webtoons and manwhas. My imagination on paper would be amazing. I’m so sad I have no drawing abilities God nerfed me because he knew if I had the ability to draw and make my plots come to life I’d be too powerful

    Job July 26, 2025 8:07 pm

    I'm the opposite i can draw but I have zero creativity

    Alice July 26, 2025 8:19 pm

    I can totally understand what you mean, I had exactly the same problem!

    Crona July 26, 2025 8:32 pm

    ugh real you can stil write novels maybe someone will want to work with you or somethjng

    LuvMeSmGae July 26, 2025 9:13 pm

    Making a webtoon takes a looooottt of work and is veeeerrryyy stressful with little pay. So maybe it’s a blessing in disguise..?

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