I really thought the girl was going to say she was gay too and was going to express her own concerns of being queer in a small minded town/family. That was not what I expected at all.
Sadism and masochism isn't just about bdsm. I'm a masochist but I don't like most tof the bdsm scene. I like to be dominated, held down, that sort of thing. Same with sadism, it doesn't have to be violence or tying people up, it can be something as simple as verbal, like degrading or praising them.
He said "our kid" ;-; <3