
I like the metaphor for safe word, you still drive carefully even with a safety belt its just in case of emergencies

Yeah, same. But the problem here is that most vanilla people do not grasp the crux of BDSM plays or understand the planning that goes into it. Most people think spanking, binding, rough sex and sometimes using candle wax is the extent of it. Plays that can cause severe physical injuries if you go a tad too far aren't in their realm of possibilities. Even for this couple, the recent one was their first experience with choking but neither has talked about it seriously. They need someonethat could tell them what could go wrong and how fast before they make a huge mistake.
I may be dumb or dumber but did ml wrote “I’m this persons esper” because even with mc being a guide or not he is his omfg i just noticed it. He did not write this person is my guide or some sht like that, tf is this gentleman doing with a face like that in a hotel as well