Wait if they had a mutual breakup, why would they agree for the wife to always be there when he meets his child? Like I just don’t understand that concept lol that means your child can’t spend a night with u because it will be weird if your ex is there too lol. Idk why they agreed on that deal but if he’s not an ex criminal or something dangerous then shouldn’t he be able to have the kid by himself?
My parents split, and my mother was always with us when we saw our father.
He wasn’t around much and as a younger child it was just easier for us to all be together.
It shows kids that Mommy and Daddy are not together but he’s still a part of a family. It could change when Yuta is older. (My opinion)
Ohh ok that makes sense. When my parents divorced it was different that’s why I was confused lol
My parents had a pretty sh*tty divorce. I'm always surprised that people can break it off so nicely after being surrounded by couples who only every fight and break up with eachother after having kids.
I think it's because the child is only 3 years old.
After this I hope there’s a story for the other characters
Me toooo I really wannna see a bunch of other ships sailing (づ￣ ³￣)づ
if I was the doctor I would try to get Noah on my side and convince him to cooperate with the cops cuz he’ll get less time if he did because it seems like he’s getting forced and abused by the other guys. But Ik it won’t be easy.... so I’ll wait to see how this goes lol
Definitely made it to my top five mangas
This was so beautiful
This reminds me of kill me heal me it’s one of my favorite shows of all time and now I get a yaoi version.
I’m really looking forward to this!!!
You do understand you’re reading a manga. Feel free to criticize it, but maybe keep the constructive criticism, and reduce the bashfulness. I highly recommend Tell me your dreams by Sidney Sheldon, if you want to read a MPD based fiction. It has almost no romance and it might be more to your taste.
Multiple Personality Disorder and DID are the same thing. I understand your criticism about the poor portrays of women in the Kdrama, with a rather misogynistic outlook. However, I would say Kill Me Heal Me has a very good portrayal of trauma, and it’s role in MPD. People can be ultra-violent or the complete opposite because trauma affects everyone differently. The Kdrama does have more fantasy undertones, but I digress. I can’t entirely agree with your Kdrama stereotyping, because I have seen good Kdrama like Miss Hammurabi, Strong Girl Bong Soon, and Chief Kim. Give them a shot.
The story for this yaoi manga has barely begun. Yaoi also heavily revolves around sexual predator tropes, which is not good, but it is heavily prevalent. This, I agree with you. You can always find ‘better’ Yaois if you look for them. I can even suggest some for you if you’d like. The sexual predator trope shown here is separated from the MPD/DID, and it is not causation like you seem to assume. The “romance” is more of an obsession, which is why you have the psycho tag. Obsession is actually quite common with trauma and MPD, with events relating to the past. Apart from the sexual predator and the potential Stockholm syndrome, which is inescapable in Yaoi, this story has potential. Also, the entire reason you get MPD/DID (Literature) is to safeguard yourself from the trauma. Not sure how you can be honest when you don’t know what is going on. Then again, I don’t know what twist this manga is going to bring.
Other fiction such as Tell Me your dreams and Split (to an extent) have good portrayals of the disorder unlike your assumption that fiction doesn’t have good portrayals of MPD. MPD/DID is not entirely studied because psychology is a rather subjective field. In any case, read fiction for what it is - fiction and not reality. I agree with some of what you said, but I was bummed because it felt like you were throwing salt at OPs excitement.
Yess I absolutely agree on this!!!
I don’t want to call you out, but I’m going to anyway. You didn’t know that DID and MPD were the same thing before (and that’s okay, we learn. I have things that I’ve to learn. But don’t be afraid to acknowledge it. It’s not a bad thing to not know something). I have neither seen nor read people take offense with the term MPD in North America and Europe, but I’ll take your word for it and will refer to it as DID from here on. Like I mentioned to you earlier, fiction and sensationalism go hand in hand. Even award-winning movies like Queen do not accurately portray Freddie Mercury’s life. Sympathy is a feeling, and feelings are subjective. I certainly felt sympathetic towards the struggles with the main character of Split (which I acknowledged had fantasy elements before) and Kill me Heal me. If you were not able to do so, that’s on you, and I think you’d find better information on this subject by reading actual case studies.
Regarding this particular manga, I completely agree with the misuse and misrepresentation of sexual assault. However, as I said to you earlier, the DID can be the causation of obsession, but I don’t see how it is the causation of sexual assault like you seem to assume. As I mentioned before, the sexual assault and Stockholm syndrome is inescapable in yaoi. The same way Stockholm syndrome seems inevitable in Beauty and the Beast. It is not odd (as far as I’ve read) for multiple personalities within DID to be in love with a person, especially if they were helping them out of a traumatic situation by just being there. In psychology, people being too reliant on their therapist is a thing, because the therapist is trying to ease their burden. It’s like a reward-punishment system. The obsession is realistic, but the sexual assault is a yaoi trope, which sucks in this context. It is very yaoi because it is yaoi. Last by not least, once again, I understand that you did not enjoy this manga, and that is obviously okay because you do you. Sexual assault is a hard pill for me to swallow in yaois too, but if the story has potential, I continue reading, and that is okay too. But there was no need for you to throw salt in OPs excitement.
Yesss I like semes like this
I’m sooo satisfied with this pairing lol
but I need more please
Wait I’m confused
Idk if I read it wrong but was Chanwoo cheating on his boyfriends with MD or does he just go to him when he breaks up with them?
same im confused too. maybe he has an agreement with his boyfriends that he’ll do bdsm with him but nothing else? idk but i hope hes not a cheater
Yeah maybe they have open relationships
Yea same cuz if it isn’t an open relationship then if it’s understandable why his partner is angry. I mean, there’s gotta be tons of marks left from that really hard bdsm. It’d mean his partner is cheating out in the open and not even trying to hide it.
Your parent’s mistakes are not your fault!!! It’s really sad when kids feel like they have pay for the mistakes their parents did. He was just a kid and he had all that guilt in him. That was sad.