Real talk tho, how hard is it to just break up with another person if you’re cheating/feel like you’re gonna cheat?? Like, if you feel like you’re gonna cheat and are tempted to cheat, then at that point I’d say it’s game over for the relationship and its better for both sides to just break it off. Whether or not the person being cheated on is an asshole or not, just break it off. (Unless ofc the cheater is in an abusive/complicated relationship where it’s not that simple to just break it off and they can’t just leave without putting themselves in danger or something)
I think people who cheats, don't want to quit the partner that do loves them because it satisfied their ego knowing that there is always a person waiting for them, it's kinda like they are going to cheat and when they don't feel like cheating anymore they know they can keep it undercover and stay with the person they're cheating on, most of the times they put theirselves with someone that they do love emotional but not physically and cheats on them to satisfy the physical part which is fucked up, but I'm not a cheater so I don't know what goes to their brain, I heard some of them says that's it's the other person fault that they cheat because something the relation not being interesting anymore but it's kind of a narcissism behavior, soo yeah they just take the relationship for granted most of the time...
Mhm that makes sense. I had (key word “had”) a close friend who proudly confessed to cheating on their bf. She said something along the lines of her bf “just wasn’t manly enough” or “not putting in enough effort” for her. Which, okay, if he wasn’t putting in the effort into the relationship, then I get why she would want to break up with him and she’s allowed to feel that way. But she didn’t break up with him and instead CHEATED on him then broke up with him a month or so after the fact. Which i suppose is better than staying with him for years after cheating, but the point is, she didnt HAVE to cheat on him at all if she just broke it off before she made that decision. Either way, I completely reevaluated my friendship with her and that completely changed my view of her and cut myself out of that friendship since I felt like I couldn’t see her the same way anymore. So, yeah, like you mentioned, that excuse of it being their partners fault is definitely something a lot of cheaters use and is in my opinion absolutely egregious behavior .
Just in case. PSA to everyone, avoid partners/situationships like this please for the love of god and yourself you can’t fix them
Damn i thought it was his brother. Since he said he’d lend him his weapon and the brother makes weapons so i thought he was being a lil clever shit for the reunion got me shocked for nothing lol
I dont even care for jjk, i really just want to see dan smile and get his happy ending with whoever at this point (himself, his gma, a friend, ANYONE who can make him smile his truest smile ).
I don’t think having her live 1000 lives was the right setting based on how little progress she’s made on figuring out who’s behind everything. And the way she carries herself and behaves as if she isn’t someone who should mentally be over 1000 years old with plenty of life experience is odd. She’s behaving as if this is only her second life. It might have been better to have the setting be one where she can coincidentally gain knowledge/abilities that match the situation she’s in. Like, just tap into another persons life and gain their skillsets for a bit. It would have made the way she behaves and thinks much more natural and believable.
Im glad pretty much everyone else is on the same page abt the side story being unnecessary lol. Doyun and taehans main story was so much lighter and fluffier that it feels like the side story should have just been a whole other main story on its own away from the sweet fluff that was taehan and doyun.
In my opinion, I think the fact that the story goes on with so much drama for so long without telling us even a smidge of her reasonings for a lot of her “cruel” (quotes because I have no idea if she really meant to do those cruel things and what she was thinking when doing those things??) decisions kinda tires me out as a reader. Like, i can only be kept in the dark and confused as all hell for so long before the main characters antics get exhausting to see lol. But if I at least knew the story or motive behind her actions around the political space, i wouldn’t be tired of seeing the drama that comes from her actions.
agreed, its been a whole era and until now we have no idea not even a smidge of what is keeping her going/her goal… i fear its just gonna be like this for a while :/
The teacher dude is so goddamn annoying and manipulative/entitled why is he so involved in her life, it doesn’t even seem like he cares about her as a genuine concerned friend. Like, he doesn’t seem to wish the best for her, it just seems like he wants an option around and someone to admire him, someone who will be obedient to him, and someone he knows he has influence over. First, he finds her in her college days rebelling and tells on her to her parents, ultimately pushing her towards the path HE wants her to take with no regard for what SHE wants. Sure, what she did when rebelling was dangerous (running away from home etc) however, him pushing her towards a path she clearly isn’t happy with was his biggest mistake towards her. Then, he acts like he has the right to know everything abt her even when their relationship honestly doesn’t even seem that deep or meaningful if im gonna be honest. From my understanding, they’re just in a sunbae-hoobae (not sure if thts right but smthing like that) relationship where he has all the influence ovr her due to his seniority. Anyways, yeah she’s an adult and was an adult back in her college days, she could’ve stood her ground and should stand her ground now, im just annoyed with him bcuz you would never find me putting up with his bullshit, senior or not, friend or not, my short temper could never
You are SO SO RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!! Ugh this is just so frustrating
I mean. So like how does dan even react to that? Lmao, my dumbass would be so confused on what the hell is going on. Kinda wish he was eating some ice cream and casually asking him that, would’ve been funny cause I read his last line in a really confused and sassy tone though I know dan was probably saying it in a polite tone