Yes hello, maybe before you go ahead and judge Siwon for being so upset you should THINK about WHY he is upset.
In South Korea being a homosexual or transgender or whatever is a HUGE TABOO.
He is probably scared of becoming an outcast and getting bullied and besides he is already pretty insecure about school and his drawings and everything. His self esteem is already low. And if someone goes ahead and posts that picture online Siwon could have trouble finding a job later, because companies can just go ahead and look him up and BOOM! "Sorry we cant hire you because it would damage our image".
Also remember that crazy guy that tried to kill Jinha? He screamed about how is life is completely ruined thanks to them?? OFCOURSE Siwon is fucking scared that the same thing happens to him.
Kang Jinha might not give a fuck but he is strong, he has money, doesn't give a single fuck about what society thinks of him and he has high self esteem. And the only thing in life he cares about is Siwon and thats what keeps him "stable", so ofcourse he doesnt give a single fuck then. But Siwon is all over the place, scared to be judged and cares about everything. His life wasn't stable and it still isn't stable. He is stressed out and hurt and confused so OFCOURSE HE CRIES A LOT BECAUSE HE IS FUCKING HUMAN. AND OFCOURSE HE IS FUCKING SCARED. LEAVE HIM ALONE (╬￣皿￣)凸
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I was thinking the exact same thing
Kang Jinha knew all that before, yes? He should move to another city & take Siwon with him. After kicking that bastard in the nuts hard enough to end his sex life.
Yeah, Kang Jinha always acts selfishly, and never really thinks about Siwon's perspective. That's how it's been for the entirety of the series.
However, I do feel that he has a point in asking why Siwon would tell him that he likes him if he's not prepared at all to face the consequences. They did keep it a mutual secret for this long, though. It goes to show that you can emphasise with both sides.
That's not true at all! Jinha has been forced to go along with the Chinese guy's plans cuz he's been threatening to expose their photo. He's been dealing with that CUZ of Siwon. Literally, all of Jinha's actions somehow lead back to Siwon and Siwon's feelings. Jinha changed and started to care about Siwon's needs and wants a long time ago. ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
When I said "always", I didn't mean just recently, though. Kang Jinha is hotheaded and has been acting pretty selfishly. They've started to communicate, but in an argument, he usually thinks foremost about how he himself has been the victim. And while he may not be wrong in feeling that, he seldom stops to think about how Siwon is feeling about it all. Siwon, on the other hand, thinks a lot about how Kang Jinha feels.
"Always" makes it sounds like he hasn't changed at all or hasn't made any progress whatsoever. He is not as bad as he was in the beginnning. Siwon doesn't think a lot about how Jinha feels.
No he is indeed not as bad as he used to be, since somewhere in the beginning he forced himself on Siwon multiple times. But Jinha is actually still pretty selfish.
Instead of asking Siwon if he is alright and what they can do or whatever, he just goes ahead and ASSUMES that Siwon is embarrassed of him and their relationship(?).
Instead of thinking of how Siwon must feel he just goes ahead and says some more hurtful stuff that makes Siwon feel bad about how he reacted. Jinha makes it about himself and that is something he has been doing for some time now.
That is actually not how you should act in a relationship. ALWAYS TALK TO EACH OTHER NO MATTER WHAT. And think about how the other person must feel. ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
Ya he was absolute trash in the beginning. Yet I'm still here lmao. I think Jinha was mean about Siwon's reaction, but his assumption was fair. I can see why Jinha would think that and ask/accuse him of being embarrassed. And Siwon who's yelled at Jinha a lot of times and has spoken up before, was lost for words. He didn't and couldn't reply. THESE FOOLS NEVER TALK AND IT DRIVES ME CRAZYYYYYYY. They were apart for so long and still don't say what they actually mean. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
Side note; I like talking to you, what other bl stories do you read?
I also like talking to you! At the moment im reading over 40 mangas on this side so i cant say all the titles xD The ones im reading right now and that I really like are My Starry Sky, which is also a complex story like a Man like you. Another one that i like is Sign Language cuz its cute and soft. Jazz for two is also nice but it doesn't have alot of chapters yet. Lastly i recommend 19 days, it's more just bromance and funny friend stuff but it will probably develop into romance.(๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Yooooo I'm reading all the same ones you mentioned too!!!!! Ayyyyyy
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THIS MANGA IS SO PURE AND FULL OF LOVE I CRY EVERY CHAPTER OMG
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THIS NEEDS A BILLION CHAPTERS (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
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Did Ayeon actually rape jaerim? Cuz like they show jaerim from behind and he says "ugh it hurts" but when Yuri comes in they are just making out? ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
He didn't really rape him
I hope he was just beating him up tbh, just to control him, you know? When yuri enters the room, Jaerim still has his pants on, and it would be difficult to do anything with those. My guess would be that the guy was trying to make him look indecent, to make the scene believable. I had a crisis on that part though ^^'
Yea i was also like:"WHAAAT NO WAAAY NOT HYUNG"
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Jeez guys wtf is wrong with you??
Y'all clearly do NOT understand Siwon AT ALL. This is obviously not and easy simple "love at first sight" and "fUcC" manhua. If you just wanne see two guys get together FAST and FUCK without a lot of problems then go read a different one.
These characters aren't just simple stereotypes, they are very complex characters who are all VERY different. The author did a PERFECT job at making and developing these characters. With lots of background stories and memories and emotions. If you then add the REALITY of how homosexuality is handled in South Korea + anxiety + low self-esteem + stress, you get Siwon.
If you really hate Siwon at this point you obviously did not read the manhua correctly. Do u really think the author just threw in all his memories and emotions for fun?? As an extra?? Cuz then ur very wrong. These things were all added so you can UNDERSTAND WHY a character is the way he is. And if you look at Siwon complicated childhood and character and the way he thinks its only LOGICAL FOR HIM TO ACT THIS WAY!!!
He is scared and unsure about his feelings, because he doesnt want to become an outcast. Because hey lets face it, the whole world IS NOT LGBT FRIENDLY. And obviously also not the world where Siwon and Jinha live in ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
YES SOMEBODY SAID IT FUCK FINALLY THANK YOU
THANK YOU.
Geez, I cannot tell you how annoying it is when people get frustrated over Siwon. It's like, "yeah, I get what you're going through, frustration and whatnot", but Siwon had no homosexual feelings towards Jinha until now. As far as I know, he was straight before Jinha came back into his life. It takes guts and courage to accept newfound feelings of sexuality. Especially, if you've never dabbled in same-sex relationships. Coupled with the fact that Siwon has self-esteem issues, of course he's going to act this way.
Also Korea's still a very homophobic place. Plus think about his terrible dad. It makes perfect sense why he reacted the way he did. If he had been positive after they were exposed, that would have been completely unrealistic. Kudos to mangaka for capturing the true psyche of the MCs.
THANK YOU. this is the entire embodiment of what i've been thinking. this isn't just about "the fuk" it's about the characters growing, and a LOT of ppl here just aren't getting it.