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It's reverse psychology apparently

What is dilff?

IS THIS NOT GONNA HAPPEN IM NOT HERE FOR THE STRAIGHT MISSIONARY SEX HELLO!!!’ WHERE IS THE PEGGING!!!!

She has to get pregnant first :D

Wow and I here I thought I have finally found a good femdom…

It is though! Making them perfect during their first intercourse with a BDSM session included would be atrocious for the minds of less experienced readers.

(As in "the pressure to be perfect" while most first times, especially when both are virgins, come to be disastrous in both good and bad ways, ahah)

I hope the story organically comes to them talking things over, speaking on safety measures, on their likes and dislikes, etc. Basically, everything you should talk over BEFORE, and not DURING or AFTER the sex itself.

Regarding this comment, if someone is puzzled by it, it's their first night. And, traditionally, considering they're nobility from somewhere in mediaeval times, wife and husband lay in bed and try for a child on their first night. That's how it was generally done

I expected it to be awkward and for them to figure things out in a clumsy way, not them to almost completely change their dynamic and include dubcon

I'll just copy-paste one of my other comments here:

"I understand where you're coming from, so to explain to you, subspace is an altered mind situation for, well, a sub during their BDSM session with the dom. Some might say it's the reason people do BDSM at all, ahah.

Basically, during that period the Dom is fully in control of the Sub, and the Sub lets themselves get submerged in nothingness. What we see in this chapter is the Dom giving a command and the Sub performing it. Then the Dom realises that something went wrong and, not having a safe word (which is crucial for BDSM sessions) and relevant experience, tries to "plea for mercy", basically reversing their dynamic. This doesn't cause the Sub to come out out of subspace due to a) their inexperience and b) the lack of dynamic. The scene ends with a sub drop aka the Sub being forcefully brought back from subspace (in healthy BDSM relationships it's a gradual process with a lot of aftercare), instantly realising the situation and dropping down.

Also, let's not forget to mention that any Drop, be it sub drop or dom drop is a dangerous, dangerous thing that can leave permeating trauma on one's person. Simply put, it's a terrible experience for both.

Please note that all my stations come from pure facts and specific knowledge. The situation itself is never okay as it' causes hurting to both."

Hope it explains my standing!

Fr she's my type...