As a gay person I’m really happy that schools (at least in California) aren’t very discriminating against gay people anymore. But coming from asia, I find it sad that whenever I date a guy I always find myself trying to change the subject when my friends ask if I’m dating the guy I’m dating or making up excuses to my boyfriend just so it won’t spread around. Like the guys I date are always open about letting everyone know but since I’ve had this mentality from asia that I should act straight I always tell them to be discreet about our relationship which is pretty sad and I really hope this changes soon :/











Ahhh I don’t know who to feel bad for like I know Kanggo is doing what he thinks will help Kamin but Kamin just grew up having to always put up a front so ofc it’s not easy to have all your feelings just be “exposed” by someone when you’ve built up this wall for so many years only for someone to break down so easily :/ hopefully they’ll get over this soon and be all lovey-dovey
I don't really feel sorry for eader of them. Kanggo is trying to help, but is been too forceful. Kamin grew up beliving he has to hide his real self, but i think there is no way someone wouldn't feel happy/relieved to find someone they don't have to hide their real thoughts and feeling from. They just need to find a middle ground.
*either
Yeah Kanggo is too forceful but you can’t blame him fro that (not that you are but just saying) I mean even his uncle told him that he always shouldn’t be too blunt as it may hurt the other person. They’ll only reach that middle ground if Kanggo somehow controls what he says and when Kamin learns to speak his and not just always go with the flow
Speak his mind**