It's painful for me to say this, but... Dan is such a pushover.
Don't you guys think rape , sexual assault, taking no consent,abuse, or not taking no seriously is kinda generalized in Korean manhnwas?
Or is it just me ?
It's rare to find perfectly healthy relationships from the start in them.
Yeah it totally is
oh in this case it’s kinda just a bl thing
it’s sad but it is like you’ll find it in any bl media its prevalence is insane, like you’ll think your safe but then boom! assault
mostly it’s a open up and find out for a lot of it? tho if you do get uncomfortable never feel weird to just leave your thoughts and dip! like gen there are a lot that have no such themes they’re just hard to find (and usually shonen ai)
hope that helps you gen
-from a bl veteran dying in the trenches
Yeah. I like assholes, but here it's pure sexual abuse. Jerkyung is like a "fat ugly bastard" from hentai manga, same pattern and behaviour, just handsome. And I guess being handsome is a saving grace. Doc Dan: "He likes me?ヾ(☆▽☆)" *doki* *doki*. WHAT?! Really?!
He's like a doormat at this point lol
Buddy I kinda think it's the culture influence.
Coz in Korea domestic violence against women is in Vogue.
That's explain their low birth rates*shrugs*
I hate when they do that, but at the same time I just wanna see the ending (if it has a happy ending or nah) and plus I have read the other manhwa this author posted and the red flag turned green so I'm waiting for Jaekyung to be one!!
it's like a kink at this point
Well bj Alex kinda followed the same troupe.
Their relationship was also unbalanced initially.
So yep!
that’s true the whole sexual abuse shit in Korean manhwa is wild but I do have to point out assault is also prevalent in the Japanese yaoi as well
your not even really that safe in shonen ai’s
in truth I think assault in this kind of media is just prevalent in all romance comics but if these bottoms where women we’d be put on stakes
so I think that’s why bl gets away with it
sad reality but jinks is a like really popular bl so kinda means a big audience likes it? which to each their own
not invalidating your opinion btw just putting in my thoughts!
stay safe out there!✿
Putting forcefully under you and Ram them.
I guess yes
Nope you're totally right.
Seems we also have double standards
That's why we both are here *facepalm*
That’s ridiculous, where’s the double standard?
porn and hentai and straight media is full of women being assaulted in fact it’s the most popular content in porn. It’s a huge disgusting and disheartening problem that in both straight and gay media women and male bottoms are more often than not abused and people get off on it.
on that end yah you are correct but what they mean is our double standard like think about it
if jinx was put out and Dan was a woman this would have been thrown out and canceled
but because dan is a man and this is yaoi people just go “yah that’s just yaoi” because of some preconceived notions of men being stronger
a lot of it has to do with this also just being a safe place for women to express some unhinged carnal sexual desire even if it’s in the trashiest erotica ever seen
it’s just sad that “themes” and a lot of authors use sexual abuse as an easy cope out for weakness
like non con kink comics have their place it’s just sad that these bls are marketed as like sport romance and then there’s assult in it and that’s jsur supposed to be normal
I feel like we're on same wavelengths .
You just write out what I wanna say
My buddy below already mentioned it.
I was talking about us , in general.
How we're here Even though we know what we are getting served is wrong on so many levels.
(￣∇￣")
very true, i dropped this after the first 4 chapters and just came back out of curiosity, assumed it would’ve gotten better due to the popularity but nope even worse now i don’t necessarily agree it would’ve been thrown out because there are many many mangas like this where women are assaulted too, it just would’ve been in a more hentai style no story like this. I believe it’s more of an east asian thing where a lot of media (anime, manga etc) has fucked up sexualisation (especially of kids :/). (obviously not just an east asian thing it’s worldwide but ygm)
Anyway there are luckily a lot of healthy BL you just gotta look in the right places! (ask reddit or look at peoples lists) I read basically anything, josei, yuri etc etc and yuri is by far the healthiest overall but still fucked sometimes. I think women cosume gay male media because there’s not the sexism or a gender power imbalance if you get me. But that just makes it even more confusing as to why there would be so much assault accepted in BL media if they’re using it as an escape from that though.
Glad to find other sane people here though lmao
it really is a train wreck we can’t look away from all I want is potato to be happy at his point POTATO BABY
I think I do have an answer for that.
Recently I've come across few YouTube shorts where interviewee is asking few women do you wanna have kids in future
And I was flabbergasted to hear their answers.
Girls were from Korea. Same goes for Japan.
So that's why I came to relate why we see so many fucked up manhwas.
It's like an escape mechanism from the reality they can't avoid.
He's the only sane person in this story apparently.
Do you remember how he immediately concluded that the actor is up to no good?
He's the youngest , but very wise and intellectual boy.
On the other hand Dan fall short.
He has no character judgment.
fuck right?? JDJDJEJ
Unfortunately this is actually coming into western media too, if you look at tiktok there’s a lot of SA and Rape that’s being excused for dark romance and the ML raped the FL multiple times but it’s getting excused for “dark romance” when that’s not even romance. But everyone’s calling him the standard and I’m seeing teenagers and pre-teens fawn over the book and want it in real life. Then at the end she falls in love with her rapist and they call them goals because he did that to her out of love. All this is becoming really normalized in the west too expect it’s like Manwha and novels flipped, now we have good manwhas and comics (not like this) that actually have good stories and less rape and SA but books have more of it. It’s all mixed up.
Another MC with face con .
What's new ?
What's face con?
Person who gets attracted by face only . Means beautiful, handsome face is their weak point..Hope this helps.
Since now that actor told him about jk , Dan totally going to fall harder for that Jerk.
He'll see jk with more rose tinted glasses then ever before, and whitewash all his absurdity.
Ugh
For some reason, I didn't want Dan to be aware that Jaekyung has feelings for him. Now he knows, poor guy is going to fall harder.
I'm kinda scared for him knowing jaekyung's personality.
This ain't going to bode well.
*Sigh*
*Fingers crossed"
This story is healthy .
Uke is not pushover, doormat.
Seme is not forceful, obsessed .
Both have their own pov & willing to listen to each other.
Not forceful?ayo did you not read the story carefully? They have gotten better just the recent chapters LMAO
Yeah if we just forget their 1st sex scene then yeah
I like how everyone has their own story. Not just there to aid main couple.
Uke is utterly useless.
Whether it was before, now and in the future too.
*I've read half of the novel, read spoilers for the rest*
* Dropped Coz I couldn't take this cringe anymore*
And seriously uke was more unbearable for me , even more than seme.
Atleast seme was doing his psychotic job properly. ╮(￣▽￣)╭