
Not understanding what it's like to be in the dating stage. I'm married now but we dated for a few months before we decided to go steady as partners. Years later came the engagement and marriage.
The uncle is probably thinking he wants to rush their relationship when he's just in the headspace to date right now, which is valid.
I love "historical" BL and it's got an interesting premise. I hope they get an official English translation soon. This is another one, I want to keep up with and support.