
I'm definitely feeling Cole's perspective in this. It is a strange thing to consider that your partner has a kid and who knows what they'll ask for in the future or what Alex may want in the future.
Alex is being real non chalant about Cole's feelings in this. But I also get that Alex just seems to want a kid.
If Alex does this and Cole is firmly against it and they stay together. That's just going to put a strain on their relationship and make Cole feel more alienated from the rest of Alex's life instead of being a partner in it.
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