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as a fellow pussy owner I can say that I just came with only penetrate 3 times in my life (I started to have sex at 16, I'm 29 now)
To me, it have to be at a EXACTLY same position, in a EXACTLY rhythm, with a EXACTLY dick size
But I do know ppl that can comw with penetration easily

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Lesbian so no experience with actual dick but my old dildo was softer silicon and smooth (not dick shaped) and curved up but it didn't really do much for me so I thought I'm just not wired to o besides from the bean but I got a new vibrator that's harder silicon but also it has lined ridges near the head and going an average speed (not fast till it's reaching near o) consistent rhythm and the ridges touching the front wall, bro I finally did it for the first time so idk bout dick but that's how I got that to work

Accidentally followed but wanted to reply, you can remove me. Orgasm with penetration alone for a pussy owner is hard. What your partner can do is make you orgasm with fingers and mouth a few times before penetration and it could be easier with penetration but if you don't want that then combine penetration and dj-ing your clit till you cum :) happy cumming o((*^▽^*))o

Yall are so helpful because I really thought I was just weird and abnormal but this made me feel so much better

You're perfectly normal. It's mostly the media (porn) that's pushed the idea that all women can orgasm from penetration only. Something like 80% of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. The trick is to find a position or angle in which the penis rubs along the clit while moving.

ur situations very normal dw abt it! im in the same position myself. i always need some clitoral stimulation as well to orgasm. like @Bunny said, its rly just porn that pushes that idea, because porn is mostly made to cater to the male gaze.

Thanks man. If I find a dildo like that, I'll be sure to get one. My man be hurt tho bc his tip ain't got no ridges

Ty bro

I only had 2 and the orgasm wasn't even strong like a vibrator. Makes me wonder what it really is like to have a dick sometimes lol

No you're NOT, you are normal, please do not rely on porn as your studying source since a lot of women fake their orgasms there, even lesbian porn is made by men for men and everything is just acting.
Try books or fetlife(internet page with various discussions and topics for kinky people and vanilla people as well just educate yourself always)
It's important that you are mentally stimulated because female orgasm happens firstly in head aka mind then in vagina/clitoris. And as others have said it is possible to cum from penetration but rarely, you have ti find which pose works for you and where you don't feel any pain. Sex should be fun and safe, what penetration can't achieve, fingers and tongue DEFINETLY can!