I have zero pity for the ML. Get your annoying sadboi ass away from innocent people. The MC deserves better. I'm not gonna read the next chapters because I can smell the "they still end up together" ending from miles away. In my mind the MC has self-respect and leaves the ML alone to wallow in his own misery <3
To be honest I think it would be better if the snip pushes through and their bond is cut off. Because then it'll be easier for them to heal and actually fall for each other. Being bonded means pheromones play a huge part on their feelings and attraction towards each other, so it's easy to blame the uke's submission to the alpha on pheromones. If they're not bonded then the uke would be just a bit more in control of himself and that would really do wonders for the story.
And to those who ship Doyeon and Daehyung in the comments, I totally understand y'all. On that same note, it would've made sense if the author also introduced a character that was ACTUALLY interested in Yiyoung other than Daehyung. Because since the beginning of the story, we've been told no one's ever really fallen in love with Yiyoung other than Daehyung, which is odd because doesn't author explicitly say that Yiyoung is extremely good looking? How come he is never genuinely hit on by anyone, then? Am I the only one who finds it odd?
That girl who is doing a school project with Yiyoung is interested in Yiyoung but neither Yiyoung knows because he is so in love with director
That's just a crush. No one has actively pursued him before? With that face card? And with how kind he is? Idk it's just something I've noticed in a lot of Korean manhwas. The author glazes how good-looking and adorable the uke is, but for some reason they have never been in a relationship. Never been properly loved. The seme however has dated and made love to everything that has legs.
No I remember the uke saying he has dated I mean he had sex flings but they were all toxic so
Didn't he said all the guys he git with told him he was plain and boring after being w him?
No je said that to himself because he compared seme exes with him
For some reason the logical part of my brain started overpowering my yaoi-colored lenses while reading this and, well, I now agree that Yiyoung should gain more experience/date around a bit before committing to Daehyung for life. Like Yiyoung said, it's not about the age gap but the vast experience Daehyung has compared to him. Daehyung has already lived such a full life, Yiyoung has barely lived his. He is literally just starting. That imbalance is bound to cause problems in the future, as evidenced by Yiyoung's insecure moments and Daehyung's struggle to reassure him properly. I still do ship them by yaoi logic, but realistically, I'd want Yiyoung to enjoy his youth first.
I don't understand how is a beautiful thing to have many dating experiences. I'm 27 and I've been single my whole life and I want to have just one boyfriend in my life. It's such a beautiful thing that Yiyoung found director in his early twenties so he can have a beautiful and fulfilling life with him. Dating many assholes, getting disappointed by others meanwhile he has a man that to be honest has been so good to him. No I think he better skip all the bad part and be happy with director. Yiyoung had many one night stands with guys which asked him to pay more for the hotel room , another guy said that Yiyoung has a decent face but nothing else.
If you've only ever dated trash, the bare minimum would seem like princess treatment. That's why Yiyoung is so head over heels for Daehyung over the littlest things. I didn't say he should sleep around like he used to do, I'm saying it would be nice if he has a bit more experience in healthy dating before committing to man 15 years older than him. Like I said, I'm speaking not through yaoi logic, but realistically. And realistically, a relationship between a 38 year old and a 23 year old would be imbalanced.
But that's purely a hypothetical situation. "He should got in a healthy relationship with someone his age" it's not like he can just *do* that
He didn't sleep around bc he felt like it, he just couldn't find partners who wanted a serious relationship and not just sex.
The idea that you should throw away smth you have bc you should experience smth that you may not get bc it involves a third party appearing its just hopeful thinking
I get why you say it's inbalance but that also applies to relationship in which one its just more naive than the other regardless of age, yet they all can still work as long as they can communicate and work through their differences
When Shao Qun said: "It's my first time falling in love. You have to allow me to make mistakes." Funny how it was also Chengxiu's first time falling in love and yet he would have NEVER done that to you !
In cases where the uke is kinda blinded by love like Hangyul and the seme is toxic like Eunhan, who are you usually angry at more? The uke for being dumb or the seme for being an asshole?
Because I was ranting to my friend about doormat ukes and how much I wish they'd have self-respect instead of staying with the toxic seme and he was like, "You should hate on the toxic seme. Not the victim."
Chat I was speechless!!! What should I reply back oh my gosh I hate being wrong lmao
In this case, the toxic seme. Because, you know, when you fall hard in love, you can't see all the atrocities that your loved one do with you or with the other people. And I hope the toxic relationship ends and the uke finds someone who respects and trully loves him. Example: Doronuma.
I was about to say this. Agreeable
How are you going to be mad at someone for being stupid over someone who is intentionally hurting others? Frustration from the outside looking in is normal because everyone always thinks “well that’s not how I would have handled that” but to be full on mad at the victim over the manipulator is a little … like if you have a friend who’s dating a shitty person are you going to be mad at your friend? Or are you going to hate their partner?
True, thank you for this perspective! I usually hate on toxic semes, but sometimes it gets a little frustrating when the uke is too desperate to realize they deserve better :')
Uhhh ok lmao first of all from which part of my post did you get "full on mad at the victim"??? Are you... okay? Why are YOU mad? That's embarrassing lmaoooo projection is an odd thing! I was just "ranting" to my friend because I wanted the uke to have "self-respect" in case you forgot how to read <3
Yeah, it's so frustrating that the uke can't see that the other one is toxic. All we can do is hope that the relationship ends and uke has a happy ending with someone else.
Seok hyun: Don't you know you're the only one for me?
Also Seok hyun: *goes on a date with the omega who likes him and gives him a chance*
And the crowd is... Oh the crowd is confused...
I know right n like the mc was all confident in wanting to seduce him but he then becomes insecure about it I- MM
Exactly!! Like what exactly is the dynamic here? Confident or insecure uke? Loyal or casual seme? Which iz ittt
I'm too lazy to re-read so does anyone remember why Sehan is suddenly being so cruel and mean to Chaon? Like I thought he was obsessed and possessive of Chaon, why is he being like this?
I also had to go back a few chps... he was being abused by one of the mafia members so in a panic/ptsd type mindset he tried to escape any way he could, which was via the balcony. Sehan came back right as he was about to jump and interpreted it as him trying to leave him/ hurt himself, so is upset. What IM confused about is why Sehan seems to be completely ignoring the signs of distress/abuse... such as the bruise on his face ┑(￣Д ￣)┍
He lost his brain midstory fr
True, like I expect him to crash out or atleast show some concerned but no he ignores it and just straight up fuxked him.
Ohh okay now I get it! I thought for a minute that something happened before that and I forgot. So that's just how Sehan reacted. Yikes! He's more self-centered than I thought
LMAOOOO I agree
"Do you think we're boyfriends now or something" I'm gonna need you to make up your mind my dude because if not then please leave the uke alone. Thanks!
lmao