
and bitches say he's forcing cortney to go along with his whims

manipulation according to the dictionary: "the action of influencing or controlling someone or something to your advantage, often without anyone knowing it: ". He is not doing problematic manipulation, but he is manipulating. He knows that she will give in, so when he does it's more of a "soft force", or rather a nudge/edging. He's pushy, but he has his own boundaries and never pushes hers. They are both overachievers when it comes to caring for someone. But I won't mince my words just because I like him.

i was reading the backstory like "i really don't care but okay"

Exactly. I can understand why you have a bad attitude. But does that mean it excuses the bad attitude? There are plenty of times I could have chosen to be a dick because my home life was shit, but instead, I kept to myself. Or I went out of my way not to ruin the mood.
I just knew I was not trying to be the source of someone's suffering.
they're honestly so funny i wish the misunderstanding would get cleared up already
(calling it misunderstanding to be nice cause we all know bora just lied deliberately