
"The reason I didn't tell you is because i'm trying to control every little aspect of your life without even your input!"

Yea not toxic but extremely stupid. Can you imagine moving in with someone and having no input about the place you’re moving to just insane. Like I’m afraid it should have been both of them touring these places together. Also he’s always complaining how he gets no time with him, but he can’t tour an apartment with the man?!? For a surprise ? Like stupid actions stupid consequences.
Yeah, that deserves a conversation. That is a pretty big question to not match on. Why did the system even match them?
I think what's happening is he is taking someone's place on the trip, right? So the misunderstanding is the person who filled out the form is someone else, and he suggested this ML take the trip and find a love ( or something like that) so I think he knows this ML is a commitment type of guy.
But also, yea, a conversation would have been good last night when he jumped back after appearing all in.
Oh! I forgot that aspect completely! Thanks!