I will always have a special spot for BJ Alex in my heart as it was my first ever BL manhwa that I read. ♡
I'm with Yoo-gon on this. He has always made sure that he is not planning on quitting his job, and we readers very well know why he can't just quit his job like that. Coming back to Jung Hae, bro needs to work on his insecurity first and should try to build his relationship on the basis of trust if he actually wants to build one. Because the blonde has always been nothing but straightforward, honest, and has never once lied about his feelings towards the MC, keeping it real all this time.
ML wasn’t told to quit his job, just limit it to stripping is what MC asked for. He can’t build trust alone if ML isn’t opening up and telling him the reason why he’s doing sex part as well. ML is also not trusting him, he’s not giving a reason when asked for, overly defensive and violent as if he’s hiding something (trauma maybe idk) clearly MC doesn’t know and asked for in ch. 65. Only to be shut off and ignored.
ML is completely shutting him off, how it’s not his business (that’s your damn partner you’re talking to like that), as if MC’s feelings don’t matter, ML told him to leave (fine with me but he’s not communicating on his part).
MC realized he doesn’t want ML to sleep with others, just the thought of it made him feel icky. I think he forced himself to believe he could handle this and just so he could date ML cause ML said they can’t date if he doesn’t accept his sexual work.
MC did break boundaries that were set earlier on so I don’t feel too bad for him there. I hope they talk it out.
Relationship takes two party to work (monogamy). And ML isn’t doing his part as he should be (yes he’s straightforward but he’s being too blunt about it and also limited communication, shutting Mc off).
MC always shared his troubles (iirc) but ML is just shut off.
First of all girl please calm down I'm seeing you under everyone's comment raging. Please take a deep breath.
Raging? I’m just commenting. I can’t even comment now can I? And genuinely I was just commenting, it may seem like I’m raging but no I have bunch of free time (exams over and I’m taking my sweet time here haha).
Alright I do see your point however it's very obvious that the MC has a bad trust issues with the ML like he knows the kind of person ML is and when the ML is actually telling him the truth he is not ready to believe him because of his own insecurities and assumptions.
And yeah I realized I am under everyone’s comment my bad, couldn’t help it. Both are in the wrong and I hate that some only blame MC. I agree that MC is the only one to blame for breaking boundaries but outside of that, both suck asssss
Oh lol happy holidays to you then! Enjoy your free time hehe.
MC wasn’t feeling like this until the step brother provoked him. In the beginning MC accepted it. Now he realized he doesn’t want ML sleeping with others cause of his damn step brother who put him in debt. It was going fine until this part.
MC broke boundaries and he’s the only one to blame, I agree with that. ML need to lower that attitude though gosh no wonder he got exes (aggression, violent, overly defensive).
I don’t know if the ML already told MC why he’s doing sex but it seems to me judging by ch. 65, MC doesn’t know(?). And ML ignored his question, said not your business, bye bitch.
This is all ridiculous. Honestly if ML wanna break up with MC cause boundaries broken, go for it. Can’t wait. I’m tired and more drama to come in future.
Nah I get your point like if you look in a broader perspective both are wrong ofc but in this particular chapter the mc is not ready to believe him because of his own assumptions about the ml even tho the ml is telling him the truth. I guess they need sit down and talk it out and try to understand each other better first(esp the mc)
Merry Christmas to you! I got weeks of break time haha before plunging into purgatory.
Yeah I agree both are in the wrong. I just feel like ML is hiding something with the way he’s so aggressive, MC asked for a reason too. And he wasn’t given any from my understanding. If MC still can’t accept ML’s work, time to separate!
Yup, I agree with some of your points here. ML needs to let MC know why he is doing the job in the first place like he genuinely likes MC and be in a relationship with him but you know what I still feel like the blonde is has a lot of walls build around him which is not yet ready to break and if that continues it would be unfair to the mc as well. Well I just hope the best for them lol that's it.
Merry Christmas to you too! Oh enjoy girl hehe.
THIS!! Exactly! If he is unable to accept the MLs work life then it's time to rethink on what he actually wants.
yeeeaaaaa I wanted to be on the MCs side for this part especially since I don’t think the ML should have met with the shady debt collector in the first place, like if I caught you talking to someone who did me dirty just cuz they offered you 1.5K I’d feel sum type of way, but it just reminds me of irl how boyfriends who have partners especially women who work at strip clubs will see them as less than or be like “you have to quit”, on the other hand that could be a new boundary that they discovered and communicating it that way is soooooo important. it’s the difference between “I’m no longer comfortable with my significant other having skinship with anyone else but me, even if it’s completely professional and not personal, I’m sorry” and what the MC did: “Can’t you just quit??? Don’t you see it makes me feel bad” which is kinda guilt tripping territory. I don’t think the ML responding to that is healthy AT ALLLL either. Inflicting violence on oneself to express how angry one is is a big big big red flag for me cuz it’s not taking into account how one might scare someone else. Even if it’s not meant for intimidation it’s never a good dynamic since it can be very triggering. Like if I said something that wasn’t thought out and disrespectful to my significant other and they punched a window while yelling “so you think i’m some slut” would scare meeeeee. But then again if it was a outburst and uncontrollable then they gotta go to therapy. They both got some work to do cuz what is this chapter
Also that green haired twink spoke nothing but facts it's time for Dan to wake up to the reality before his heart gets crushed horribly.
Dan is so freaking pure Jaekyung doesn't deserve him please
The way this Jiwook gave away his address to this psycho so easily and being so unguarded around him like??? Had Seungyo had asked him and did sumn like that he would be throwing fits lol. He keeps ignoring his creepy ass advances despite so many signs infront of him. If something happens to him because of that crazy mf I don't think I'm gonna feel bad for him atp.
Boy I remember people coming at me for calling him the dumbest idiot oh boy how they gonna defend him now.
The way this Jiwook gave away his address to this psycho so easily and being so unguarded around him like???
"If there are million ways to love someone....I definitely chose the wrong method"
oh boy this moved mountains to me. Yahwi you will always be one of my most favourite characters in BL manhwas my boy.T_T
My favorite character out of this manhwa has always been Yahwi, simply because I have always been drawn towards complicated characters who have beautiful and satisfying character development, and Yahwi falls into that category. He is not a black and white character but a grey character with layers in him. And that's why I would always thank the author for creating an interesting character like him.
That being said, as much as it hurts to see him cry, it was very much needed for both him and Jooin to part ways and heal themselves first. I'm hoping for a time skip, so let's see what the author has in their bag for everyone.
Yes, I totally agree with you!!!
Yahwi' character is so damn realistic, because in real life too people make mistakes and learn from them.
And his character development is phenomenal, and now it's high time both of them needs to get healed and moving away from each other was the best way to do that
Yes! You described him perfectly imo!
Absolutely! His character is indeed very realistic because he just represents that very human aspect of nobody being perfect and people learn from their mistakes as they grow.
Yup, again, totally agreed!
exactly!!
people need to accept the fact yahwi is realistic, a human has desires (in this case, sexual) and yahwi had those too, yes he might've left jooin in the mornings but he left money for the cab and food , humans tend to be bad at communicating and the most realistic part of all:
HE MATURED!
this doesnt make yahwi a good person, but it does make him a good character. maybe the best one.
Also looking at BJ Alex's panels I can see how tremendously mingwa's art has improved over the time man. Amazing!