It's not selfish. Having kids is a choice.
People act like women *should* have kids, but that's cultural and societal pressure.
It's not a rule, nor should anyone ever be forced to do that.
What *is* selfish, is giving birth to a child to "fit in" or "meet expectations", and then not giving them the love, stability, care, or energy they deserve;
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I had a dream a decade ago that caused me to go into a month long phase where I was the best person I could ever be.
In the dream I saw myself in third person, walking and stopping by every once in a while to chat with somebody.
I'd never know what I'd stop for next.
I'd stop to pet a dog, and then not too later I'd stop to comfort a friend in my a......
see guys this how you market stuff to a family, you hear that? dude-in-blue??
